I am - and my husband is +. Always use condoms and just to insure a little bit more have him pull out before he comes. Also the only way that you are not going to "feel" like something is dangerous is to give it time. You and he are both scared. I have given my husband head without a condom but we are lucky because he doesnt precum. Just always check for open sores etc... I even know some women who are - and have sex without condoms and are still -. Me personally I think we may have a few times and of course he pulls out. You have to realize that you may be taking a risk and accept that. Otherwise neither of you will feel comfortable. We also kiss for hours on end so dont worry about that if you were. Tell your doctor to bite you. I have been told the same things by my docs. It irritates me. I will not treat my husband like a leper just because of this. So long as you are safe as you can be and know the risks to try to prevent them you will be fine. I would not trade my relationship with my husband for the world. I wish you luck and if you need to talk email me. firstname.lastname@example.org Please title the subject Body as I may erase it.
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