Hi b. You sound like a dreamboat! Ah if there were more men like you. You are the fantasy we all have! Bravo! You are doing the right thing. everyone in the universe has something that's imperfect and that requires some understanding. And you sound like you are not superficial. If you have safe sex always you will be ok!! Just remember always means always. You may want to find out the deal with his meds. Cause you don't just stop meds. It's dangerous to do so. Perhaps he needs your support. But be careful! YOu want to keep the relatioship equal. You do NOT want to turn into his caretaker. That's a dangerous dynamic! Be low key about it. But ask. And do not be more forgiving or anything cause he's HIV positive. You must keep your high standards and not turn him into an invalid....(psychologically...) He's living with HIV. He's not an illness. He just has something extra he has to deal with... So be supportive but don't baby him.
Good luck! You are super to be so authentic! Wish I could find someone like you!!!!!!!!!!!
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