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Francis1211
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Reged: 06/04/11
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Loc: Europe
Re: when and how to tell my teen kids
      07/26/11 04:45 AM

Hi,
Now several weeks after my question on this Board, my wife, our marriage counselor and myself have gone over the various issues related with disclosing or not. At the stage where we are at now in our relation (or what is left of it), it was felt best not to disclose (yet). I somehow feel like a coward but also relieved not having to face this as we are currently both very vulnerable because of what has happened and we may need to get more strength before doing so. For various other reasons too, our three teens have in the mean time also taking some distance from us and we are not in a stable enough situation to handle it well altogether. But following my posting here, someone had shared a disclosure sheet with me which was very helpful in reflecting on the pros and cons of disclosing. In the mean time I also went back for my half yearly lab results are they were just GREAT (T4-cells are 500+, VL undetectable, all others indicate a perfectly healthy (!) man - Woof). Thanks again to all of you who shared their views and I will keep an eye on this Board. You have been GREAT too.

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healthy undetectable str8 married male

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* when and how to tell my teen kids Francis1211 06/04/11 11:02 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids Francis1211   07/26/11 04:45 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids trustGod   06/21/11 05:38 PM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids LostNconfused   06/18/11 11:43 PM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids lincolnsense   06/10/11 08:19 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids alive2   06/06/11 12:00 PM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids Pos_in_Thailand   06/05/11 01:00 PM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids Francis1211   06/05/11 04:44 PM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids BigSis   06/13/11 12:37 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids alive2   06/13/11 12:52 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids crabmanModerator   06/06/11 08:51 AM
. * Re: when and how to tell my teen kids alive2   06/06/11 12:04 PM

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