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PSWrandy
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Reged: 07/06/07
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Posts: 23
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Loc: wa, usa
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Re: interesting news story of man with HIV?
07/08/07 03:29 AM
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it is sad that people cannot protect their partner to the extent of revealing their status. This guy seems to be deliberately putting others at risk. i hate to say though this is entirely too common. the other problem though is guys advertising to have guys come over and fill them up, with no concern or knowledge as to whether the other guy is negative or positive, let alone any other STD's. i feel that it is the responsibility of the HIV+ person to reveal their status as well as the negative person to ask. It is also the responsibility of both to protect themselves from the other using protection (condom). when i am with a new partner for play, if their is anything that might put them at risk, i let them know of my status so they can make an informed decision with what they want to do. It takes two to pass HIV and two to take responsibility to protect themselves. i have a kind of unusual position where when anal intercourse is suggested, where i am the inserter, since i have no precum and do not cum inside the receiver, i make the receiver aware of this and the choice is theirs as to whether a condom is still required. Most of the time, they feel comfortable without the condom. i am not suggesting this is full proof, but i let them make an informed decision. Although i have not had much sex outside of my relationship, who is also negative, and remains negative under the same conditions, when i do i think they are an adult too, and can decide on their own.
randy
-------------------- Respectfully,
randy
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