Yes I would say I am the only one qualified too determine if I am happy or not, since I know my life and you do not, but then I think you simply just enjoy attacking views you disagree with. Have you written Poz Magazine yet and attacked them for posting this very same story on their main news page? I am sure you can accuse them too of being unhappy, angry and insensitive too your views, but then your like the lone ranger, it seems..., many people like you exist, and you claim too think non disclosure is wrong but you become angry at news of someone running afoul of the legal system for the very thing you claim too view as wrong. I would never venture too guess whether you or anyone else is happy or unhappy, too me that is truly the most foolish thing I can imagine..., since no one but the individual can determine this.., but then again your opinions are yours, and you have the right too express them. I am quite happy, am quite at peace with my situation, came too this place a long time ago, after much reflection and inner soul searching.., my view on this news story is really unimportant, since I chose long ago too not travel the road of dating anyone but the HIV+, so I have no angry ex-lovers hunting for me, or wanting vengence via the legal system, but not all have this luxury, and I sympathize with them, but we all make our own choices, for the good or bad, and anyone with a less than clean past on this disclosure issue will have too worry for their entire lives if someone will hunt them down and seek legal retribution, just as this guy, was in prison and getting out and a ex-lover came in and sought retribution and vengence.., the moral of this story is truly over your head..., and you can live in delusion as long as you like that society will be fair and punish the TB infected fellow before they try and punish those with HIV as long as you wish, reality is it all boils down too many uninfected people will demand both TB/HIV too be punished, persecuted, etc..., you remind me of the pot calling the kettle black...., I do not judge either this man with TB or this man with HIV for non disclosure, both simply have had bad luck, fate too be infected and made bad choices maybe, or maybe not, since the TB fellow has a defence of he was not told he was infectious, and this HIV fellow claims he told his ex-lover, but it all boils down too whom does one believe, and I for one do not envy anyone sitting before a jury of non TB/HIV people expecting sympathy or mercy, as exampled by your view of this TB fellow is guilty even before a trial has occured, you doing the very same thing many do "convicting merely on suspicion" which proves my point, I made the right decision too not travel the road of dating the HIV negative, too many complications, too many pit falls one can fall into...., you keep on doing what ever it is your doing, disclosing, not disclosing, etc, only you know your inner demons, and only you will pay the consequences in the end...
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