So scared....Am I at risk? I blacked out! - TheBody.com's Bulletin Boards

Hello all. I am so so scared. I am a 22 yr old female and i recently met with a man who ive only seen once & phoned several times. I got very drunk and i remember asking him 'do u have condoms' he said 'no' so i said 'please dont f*** me then' he was also drunk but i remember him saying, i wont! we kissed and he took off my panties but i slipped them back on, and repeated don't f** me ok? he answered ok again & just fingered me but not w/ penetration. im a virgin and he knows this. his pants never came off while i was awake, he only tried to kiss me and rubbed my bottom alot.

i soon threw up and he got very worried abt my well being and kept repeating i shouldnt have drank so much. i passed out after that and he was on the other side of the bed. woke up the next morning and my panties were off....this has been scaring me,, things are very vague. im not sure if i removed them or he did again. He turned to me and began kissing me the next morning and was being normal, i tried to take off his pants to see if there was any dried semen on him or me, but he was very shy & told me his penis was so small which made me think maybe he didn't have sex with me if he is this insecure.

after awhile he let me and i didn't see anything but he could have cleaned up.

i was more drunk than him as i couldnt stand but he was able to guide me to the bathroom.

i also remember him asking me 'do u remember what happened?' i told him...kinda, refresh my memory, just to see what he would say. He basically told me everything that I recalled. Should I get an HIV test just to be sure he didn't try to have sex with me? I didn't feel any soreness in my vagina or anus like he'd tried to have sex with me but what if he rubbed his genitals on me without penetration. He has called me since sayin he misses me and he'll bring condoms next time, but he doesn know i wont be seeing him anymore until i get over this. based on this situation does it seem necessary to get tested? i asked him did he have hiv when i was drunk and he said no but i cant count on that.

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