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Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ?
      06/22/08 08:28 PM

A few days ago I ended up going to a Lapdance bar with friends while working in the USA. After much beer and coaxing from my friends I ended up getting a private dance from one of the dancers – a Venezuelan girl. I ended up getting a handjob, which reading the forum is very low risk.

However I have 2 concerns.

1 – During the dance she briefly put her hand down her knickers, kissed her lips and then put her finger to my lip. I quickly wiped my mouth

2 – Just after I ejaculated she rubbed her finger over my urethra, I think it was to see if I had cum as it was quite dark.
I could not urinates straight away, it was some 10 minutes later and I could only wash when I got back to the hotel,a few hours later. I have not been circumcised.

I don't know the HIV status of this girl and am now starting to spiral into a depression worrying that there may have been some vaginal fluid on her fingers which could have gone on my lips, or entered my urethra.

Am I worrying unnecessarily ? I am feeling guilty at having made this error of judgment. I am happily married with a young family and don't want to loose them or put them at risk.

Should I have a test done for HIV and STD ?

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* Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? scaredagain 06/22/08 08:28 PM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? bios23   06/27/08 01:16 AM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? ravi   06/26/08 12:40 AM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – Thanks for the support scaredagain   06/23/08 09:34 PM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? MikeyTheSailor   06/23/08 03:05 AM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? Jackie__Blue   06/22/08 09:46 PM
. * Re: Lapdance handjob – is this a risk ? scared_elf   06/22/08 09:08 PM

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