Yes you do have to feel sorry for the wife or girlfriend who's husband cheats and infects her. But as you also say, there's nothing new about it except now the consequences now can be deadly. That brings us up to now, women. You can't have it the OLD way because HIV IS so deadly. You've got to practice safe sex, get tested, and make sure you husband/boyfriend does the same thing. There's no little angel on your shoulder protecting you even though you may THINK you're in a monogamous relationship. You better protect yourself. And if you end up HIV pos. you have no one to blame but yourself. Tragic, but true.
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