I'm tired of hearing about men who live the "secret gay life" and go home and infect their wives/girlfriends. Although its everyones responsibility to have safe sex, a wife shouldn't have to worry about HIV when she doesn't know her husband is gay and he totally hides the lifestyle from her. This reminds me of a woman I used to work with several years ago. Her husband worked for a large department store chain and travelled alot. They had 3 kids together and were married for 15 years before she found out he had HIV and while he was travelling with his job had all these affairs going with men. Needless to say they divorced and he has HIV, she does not thankfully. She had no idea about his lifestyle until she went into the attic of their home to look for a leak and found scores of gay magazines. Gross huh.
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