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iam1
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Re: Dumped because I am Pos
      10/31/13 05:44 PM

You know how you read something and it sticks with you. You don't consciously think about it, but it churns away in the deep recesses of your mind. That's what you statement has done with me.

Over the past few months I've kept coming back to this post and re-reading it. I knew there was something here that was simple, but I kept trying to read more into it and couldn't figure out what it was that I wanted to say.

Then today it clicked like the proverbial light going off over my head - your EX-boyfriend is a dick. And, I DON'T mean that with any kindness!

So, you tested HIV+. To that I have to say - WELCOME TO THE CLUB! WE'VE BEEN EXPECTING (BUT NOT WANTING) NEW MEMBERS. You're only one of many thousands of people in the world who will find out this year.

NEWS FLASH! This just in --- your "boyfriend" was looking for an excuse to dump you. I wasn't there, so I can't speak to whether it was his fault or yours that the relationship went sour. But, with the knowledge out there about HIV and the numbers of sero-discordant couples there was little to no excuse for him to have dumped you.

The only excuse I can honestly think of other than his being a big horse behind is that perhaps he's the source of your HIV infection.

I don't know if you had an open relationship or if you were monogamous, but either way if he knew he was positive and not wanting to deal with it in real life he may have dumped you to hide the fact.

Don't hate him. Feel sorry for him. Feel for him and those who can't feel for others. Then forget he ever existed.

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Subject Posted by Posted on
* Dumped because I am Pos usctrojan 05/17/13 02:53 AM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos iam1   10/31/13 05:44 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos riverprincessModerator   11/01/13 06:53 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos *DELETED* hivgays   06/18/13 11:09 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos mathguy   06/04/13 05:13 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos Ferguson1959   05/29/13 07:55 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos Ryan81   05/29/13 07:47 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos leathercublon   05/29/13 06:00 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos Daddy_Bearby   05/30/13 09:21 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos bartlebyAdministrator   05/17/13 02:20 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos usctrojan   05/18/13 03:04 AM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos thebird1959   05/18/13 09:19 PM
. * Re: Dumped because I am Pos Daddy_Bearby   05/30/13 09:32 PM

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