Advertisement
The Body: The Complete HIV/AIDS Resource
Follow Us Follow Us on Facebook Follow Us on Twitter Download Our App
Professionals >> Visit The Body PROThe Body en Espanol

HIV Life >> Gay Men

kicker
Moderator

Reged: 10/25/10
Posts: 1131
Loc: GA, USA
Re: Unhappy with my life
      03/10/11 01:24 PM

I don't mean to sound like an ass, but I will in hopes to get you to think about what I am about to say.

If your life is an "intense juggling act" why bother looking for a relationship that you have excuses not to pursue?

My point being that sometimes to build a wall around the hurt we feel from self stigma of being HIV+ we put ourselves deeply into everything else around us. Anything that may focus our attention back at ourselves and the feelings are wiped from our lives or avoided rigorously. In alot of cases relationships with others is a huge road block, because of fears, self worth, and our desire not to be seen.
I have seen many times this to be true, a relationship is the ultimate opening up of one self and until you are comfortable with you there will always be too full of a plate to have one. Even if you tell yourself that they are wonderful.

Probably not the kind words you were looking for...

Edited by kicker (03/10/11 01:25 PM)

Post Extras: Remind Me!     Notify Moderator

Entire thread
Subject Posted by Posted on
* Unhappy with my life *DELETED* njpozdad 03/09/11 08:35 AM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life riverprincessModerator   02/08/12 09:35 AM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life NcLongtermer   02/07/12 04:05 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life Pozince78   03/18/11 02:24 AM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life MikeNUSA   03/17/11 02:23 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life njpozdad   03/18/11 08:13 AM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life psgoodguy   03/17/11 01:30 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life NcLongtermer   03/17/11 01:27 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life MissouriMammal   03/11/11 01:00 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life njpozdad   03/12/11 01:56 AM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life kicker   03/10/11 01:24 PM
. * Re: Unhappy with my life njpozdad   03/11/11 08:54 AM

What's New at TheBody.com

Additional Information
0 registered and 0 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  TheBody, bogart, crabman, riverprincess 



Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is enabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Thread views: 4185

Jump to

Contact Us | Privacy Statement The Body

*
UBB.threads™ 6.2.3