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Re: Relatioship
      07/08/10 10:21 PM

bad breakups are the worst! what a dick move he pulled. i feel for you. i wasted so much time waiting for someone instead of moving on sooner.

what you're feeling is withdrawal and betrayal. both very normal things. the best thing you can do for yourself is to take time and space away from your ex. sure, you can "mourn" and "grieve" but only for a little bit. reach out to friends. talk about it to no end until even you get sick of hearing about it.

sooner or later, you will start to feel better and begin to move on with your life. whether or not it was his fault or if he was a jerk or not doesn't matter now. analyzing what might have been at the root of this won't bring him back. you can't "solve" this breakup. you just need to get over it. especially if he's going to treat you like this.

you will figure it out on your own though. just don't get sucked back in.

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* Relatioship livinginli 07/07/10 11:46 PM
. * Re: Relatioship bartlebyAdministrator   07/08/10 10:21 PM
. * Re: Relatioship Jeff99   07/08/10 09:33 PM
. * Re: Relatioship bismarck06   07/09/10 02:21 PM

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