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DS86
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Reged: 08/01/09
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Loc: New York
Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!!
      08/02/09 08:56 AM

Wow. I could almost swear you were MY boyfriend posting this about me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now. You hit a lot of good points but one thing that I am sure others and yourself have thought of is to tell him to seek professional help. Talking through this with a therapist or a close friend, to trully get to the bottom of his fears will help. I currently have the SAME problems and its really hard. I still have issues when we have sex, but only me and my boyfriend are able to have anal intercourse but not always as long and as pleasurable for both as we would both like. I recommend that you bring that up to him in the most loving and affectionate way. I am curious to know how you are both doing now because me and my boyfriend still deal with the same issues. Feel free to send me a message, as hard as it can be, I can only imagine how much you want to share your boyfriends body and love in bed but I know personally that it's hard sometime. The stigma of infecting our partner and putting them through what we have delt with is something that would probably drive me to suicide ( not really ) but close. I wouldn't be able to live with myself. My name is Joe, I live in New York and I am 23. Although I don't agree with the open relationship and sometimes without that strong sexual connection you get tempted to stray but if the love is there then it will definitely last. I could not imagine living without my boyfriend at this point in my life. I wish you the best of luck and keep in touch.

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* HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! *DELETED* celloy 07/01/09 10:16 AM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! jcruz898   09/02/09 02:49 PM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! DS86   08/02/09 08:56 AM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! allen42   08/01/09 07:51 PM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! allangering   07/09/09 05:53 AM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! August69   07/03/09 02:12 PM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! Dare2Love   07/02/09 05:43 AM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! gwridens   07/01/09 05:38 PM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! celloy   07/01/09 08:45 PM
. * Re: HIV - with HIV + boyfriend....PLEASE HELP!!! FLOWERMAN   07/28/09 09:19 AM
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