I have been HIV+ for 28 years. My first Partner of 11 years past away in 1992 fo AIDS. My second Partner and I broke after 14 years of being together, he was also HIV+. I am with a nice man now who is not postive and wishs he was. I keep telling him he should not wish that. I do not know if he is wishig he was because of me. I sure hope not. Makes my life very hard.