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Reged: 02/28/08
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Guilty Sexlessness
      03/19/08 03:50 PM

My Partner has been poz for a couple of years now, and recently passed the virus on to me in 01.08. We're both committed and exclusive with each other for over a year.
For the last 6 weeks, he hasn't had any interest in sex. And about 2 months ago he started his new medication therapy of Atripala. I've been trying my hardest to get him in the mood, but he's been pushing me away. Whenever I try to talk to him about it, he blames it on his age (41), his new meds, or the self-hate for passing the virus on to me, then he tells me to leave and go to a bathhouse to 'meet my needs.'
I've never been to the baths, so no idea what it's like.
But from what I've seen on Queer As Folk, it looks like a lot of Hot guys going at it with no strings attached.

Anyone out there have any experience with Meds affecting sex drives, the headfuck of aging affecting sexdrive, or opinions about Bathhouses that are like the ones on Queer as Folk?


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* Guilty Sexlessness MIADA 03/19/08 03:50 PM
. * Re: Guilty Sexlessness fresnopup   04/27/08 07:33 PM
. * Thanks a lot guys MIADA   04/08/08 02:28 AM
. * Re: Thanks a lot guys Choosing2Liv   04/08/08 09:42 PM
. * Re: Guilty Sexlessness RayNGrant   03/24/08 05:21 PM
. * Re: Guilty Sexlessness August69   03/22/08 06:08 AM
. * Re: Guilty Sexlessness pozbear49   03/23/08 02:33 AM
. * Re: Guilty Sexlessness Choosing2Liv   03/20/08 08:16 PM
. * Sexual Avice picaropsv   03/21/08 08:42 AM
. * Re: Sexual Avice pozartistsd   04/15/08 03:39 AM

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