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Re: what do you guys thing about this?
      07/02/06 07:21 PM

Here are my thoughts and by the way Welcome to TheBody.. I would for your peace of mind if you have not already done so is have an Elisa test done on you for confirmation that you are indeed neg. I am sure you have that question looming in the back of your mind. Get that over with. Then go from there. As for your x-lover telling you "he got it from you". That would be an impossibility if you are indeed neg. You didnt clarify when your last test was as I recall. As gay guys go. We/they tend to fool around. And purhaps, this is what happened in his case. You have offered your support, he has declined it. Do not press this issue anyfurther. Let it lie where it is for now. He most likely is working through alot of emotions right now and I would if anything tell him to get involved with a support group. Be it here or at AIDSMEDS or through his local ASO (Aids Service Organization). There are very many different feelings your x is going through right now. They will change like the wind over time.. Give him some breathing room, but let him know you are there...

In the meantime, like I say... If you have any doubts about your status, get tested... Keep talking.


Eric - "RatBoy"

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