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my girlfriend wont get tested
      01/17/05 08:24 AM

I seroconverted in April 2004 and recieved my results in July 2004 -I am 99.9% sure I got hiv from my girlfriend who is an IV drug user. I have never had unprotected sex except for 2 people - my last girlfriend and my current one. She will not go for the test and it is worrying me as I have a particular aggressive strain with my cd4 already below 260 and my viral load up at 90 000 and only having this 6 months or so. I asked her once to go for the test but she just replied, "You would love if I was positive!" That hurt me alot. We practice safe sex now, etc but I feel the pressure not knowing if she is going to get ill infront of me or just if she does or doesnt have it - she makes light of the situation and I know she wont go for the test ever as she is that type of person -if its bad news or a chance of it - she'd rather ignore the whole thing. She doesnt realise that I am thinking of leaving her to live and concentrate on my own as this pretending everything is fine routine will not work forever. Anybody in a similar situation?

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