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i might do something stupid
      #247207 - 08/27/09 08:29 AM

i was diagnosed few weeks back, was so innocent and truthful, but i feel like God hate me very much and it doesn't worth of living,, and am afraid i might do something stupid, i really need someone to talk and if i can pass this time, the truth i give up on life

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PreciousBiscuit
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #247227 - 08/27/09 08:22 PM

Don't give the monster who gave you the virus,the satisfaction of robbing you of your life.get therapy.keep on keeping on.it will get better with time.it's not easy.my advice is that,as long as you can manage your health,your emotions,please do not disclose to anyone,not even close family members,unless you are certain they can be trusted.do not disclose,and do not pass on the virus to other people.use condoms consistantly.i know rite now ,you feel it is the end of the world.it is n't.just think of it,like this,people who have diabetes and high blood pressure take meds every single day of their lives,is n't it?so,the same applies here.both diabetes and high blood pressure are killer diseases,but are managed.they don't have a cure.so,the same applies here.it's a matter of perspective.

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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #247231 - 08/28/09 06:43 AM

thanks for the message
the only thing keeping me going is my love to my family, i was not a bad girl and i trusted a guy which i thought will spend the rest of my life, for the moment i feel life don't worth anything but there r some love keeping me going.. everyone is telling me in time all will be fine, i hope it's true,


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Equinox
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #247866 - 10/05/09 07:44 PM

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I was diagnosed in 1991 - I was 20 years old and pregnant. It was an awful time. But what I want to tell you is that it will get better. I promise. Do whatever you can to be kind to yourself, take long baths or go for walks or hang out with friends who make you laugh...whatever works for you. Don't give up. You will be glad later that you held on. For me, I have a beautiful, smart, and caring 17 year old son who is negative and I have been fairly healthy since 2000 (undetectable viral load and normal t-cells). It sucks to deal with, especially at first, and especially when you have been betrayed by someone you cared about, don't get me wrong, but it will be OK.

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elise2009
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #248032 - 10/17/09 05:01 AM

dont blame God, i know God gave you that because He knew that you can make it.


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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #248079 - 10/19/09 08:10 PM

Geez Elise. From your responses it sounds like you know a lot. Why don't you spare everyone on this site with your qualified statements about something you are seemingly so unqualifed about. God doesn't give HIV; people do. Its something we all have to deal with without idiotic one liners.

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OobiemoObie
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #248111 - 10/21/09 04:41 PM

It has nothing to do with "god"... life goes on and it really isn't as bad as it seems. Surround yourself with people you care about and who care about you, use protection and get your partners tested, have fun with your family and continue living. You're not a bad person, somewhere someone simply made a mistake. Take care of yourself, listen to your body. Do what makes you happy with precautions. In no way is your life over, if everyone believed that, non of the strong survivors would be here to tell us otherwise.

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oldwoman
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #248121 - 10/22/09 07:58 AM

Hi Bernie,how are you doing?

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goodman
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #248366 - 11/10/09 07:59 PM

How old are u? pls dont do anything stupid, men still need u. just make yourself available and choose one man.
Cant u c there are many single men out there looking for poz female?

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nnhood
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Re: i might do something stupid new
      #249005 - 01/05/10 02:44 PM

God loves you and wants the best for you not the worst. I don't think this would be part of God's plan for you, but that doesn't mean God cannot work within your life now for the best. Kind of like when a GPS re-calculates your route if you go off course, God is always willing to be there for you wherever your life has brought you, you just need to be receptive to him.

Suicide solves nothing and I'm sure would make life worse for your family or friends that love and care about you.

Take care and just take one day at a time.

M.

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