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Reged: 12/12/13
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Loc: Long Island, NY
Alone Too Long...
      #274464 - 12/12/13 01:59 AM

I haven't dated in a very long time. I'm ready to get back out there but have been very unsuccessful on all of "those" dating sites. I am a smaller-sized BBW Black woman in my 40s residing in NY. Want so much to meet a nice guy.

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Reged: 12/25/11
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Loc: Jersey Shore
Re: Alone Too Long... new
      #274481 - 12/14/13 02:38 PM

Just as I replied to another poster in this catagory , there are sooo many pos folks looking to meet another. But seems everyone is afraid to make a move. All it takes is a hello to start up a conversation . There are also other sites such as PosPersonals. Don't be shy or bashful, just start with a hello and see where it goes.

Look up to the Heavens for the answers to Lifes questions .

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Reged: 05/15/13
Posts: 488
Loc: Alberta, Canada
Re: Alone Too Long... new
      #274488 - 12/15/13 08:19 PM

Well I think you are on the right track, just that your train is still in the station, time to get it rolling. While your checking out those dating sites of yours, are you sitting at home? Get your laptop off the couch and set yourself up in a local coffeeshop, food court at the mall and look very interested at your laptop. Get a book and start reading it while enjoying a latte or this time of year a mulled wine ... it starts conversations.

Like your name says ConvoOverCoffee, look for that safe comfortable coffeeshop, or those coffeeshops in bookstores they have now and set yourself up as someone approachable and ready to talk, someone will come along who wants to share in what your doing!

Finally don't think the first person to talk to you is going to be your lifemate, network, that person might know someone who is just perfect for you. Open up the love from you and love will find you!

Good luck with your search, and if your looking for a long-distant friend, well I'm here!!!

anotherday ... in paradise!
daily ponder ... be the reason someone smiles today!

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