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ScaredToDeathNow
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Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Escort
      #205109 - 08/27/06 05:17 PM

Very afraid… Two days ago I had an unprotected oral encounter with a transsexual escort while in on vacation and I now fear I have destroyed my life. I was on both the receiving and giving end of the unprotected oral sex and I now so fear that I have contracted a STD or HIV that I cannot sleep, eat or think about anything else. I did enquire if he had been tested for HIV and rather or not he used IV drugs and was told that he was last tested for HIV in June and he did not do drugs. I have no cuts or sores in my mouth and he did not ejaculate in my mouth but there may or may not have been any precum while I was giving him oral sex. I also examined his penis and saw no sign of sores or any other common signs of STDs.

At this time it is too early to be tested for HIV and I am so worried about bringing something back home to my spouse. At this point I feel my death would be safer than bring something home from this encounter, while my death would still effect my spouse at least she would not die due to me bringing home HIV. I have contacted the escort several times since the encounter and he/she has told me I am worrying for nothing and he/she is clean. I am so regretful of this encounter.

Dr.HHH at MedHelp.org stated : “Virtually zero risk; don't worry about it. Search this and the HIV forum for "STD transmission risk", "HIV transmission risk", "oral sex", and/or "fellatio". I have done as he suggested but have found few instances that are based on the same details as my encounter.

What are the odds that this single encounter will result in me catching an STD or HIV?

Does this encounter warrant testing?

Sincere thanks,

Edited by ScaredToDeathNow (08/27/06 08:33 PM)

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Escort new
      #205117 - 08/27/06 08:31 PM

ok, here is the deal. As far as recieving oral, there is NO risk. As far as giving him oral, there is a very low risk,but not a zero risk. the fact that u didnt have cuts in ur mouth, he didnt have cuts/sores in his penis and he didnt ejaculate in ur mouth is a very very good thing. Personally, i would say u dont have to wory about it, but looks like the anxiety is getting to u, i would probably test at the 13 weeks mark just for a piece of mind, for now dont lose sleep over this, and as Dr. H said, virtually zero, and he knows what he is talkin about! good luck buddy, u will be fine .

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205119 - 08/27/06 08:39 PM

Would a small burn on the roof of my mouth from hot food recieved that night prior to the encounter...Not an open sore, just a tender spot that was like a unbroken blister. The next morning the skin did peel off blister but there was never bleeding. I am 100% certain it was a burn from the hot food and not anything other than that and that it existed prior to the encounter. Does this fact change your opinion?

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205123 - 08/27/06 09:05 PM

No sir, the only thing that would change my opinion if he ajaculated in ur mouth and u have an open cut/bleeding in ur mouth. U know what, to be honest with u, u dont have HIV, it is just most people who know what they r talking about will tell u very low risk, since it is based on studies. But frankly, one incident and no ejacualation in ur mouth, u will test negative. I bet my house on it!! Go get some sleep buddy and be careful next time please.

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205134 - 08/27/06 10:45 PM

Thanks for the encouragement dude!

Assuming here you are not a doctor I really wished that Doctor HHH at MedHelp.org or Doc R here would answer or I could speak with someone that could tell me how much I am overeacting. I jumped on a thread at MedHelp to get the little answer I got from DR HHH but to get a full response I have to pay a 15.00 "donation" with my credit card to post a question that warrants a full response from the doctor....sure giveaway to my wife and they don't take PayPal. I called the CDC hotline last night at midnight and was given a standard answer that made me feel worse not better.

I am so afraid my wife will find out...it would most definetely end my marriage. All to satify a STUPID curiosity that really turned out to be nothing like expected...at least I am now sure of my sexual preference and it sure is not TS!

I AM SO STUPID



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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205146 - 08/28/06 12:47 AM

what the person told you above is accurate information, now if it feels better coming from a doctors mouth then your prob not going to get it in here.

insertive oral sex, no risk, many studies done and this isnt a viable way to get hiv.. only theortical risk here, but then again there is a theortical risk for anything out there.. theortical means altough its possible it just never happens.

receptive oral sex.. considered low risk, the risk can be furtur reduced if no ejaculation takes place, and also having no cuts or sores on the penis and mouth reduce the risk as well. and even with that in mind, getting hiv from receptive oral is considered rare event... doesnt mean it never happens.. it just doesnt happen very often infact studies show 1 in 10,000 with a confirmed hiv person.

now you dont know the status of your partner so this reduces it even more..

just take it easy, i recommend you drop this but since your anexity is high getting a test at 13 weeks will remove any doubts you have.

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205215 - 08/28/06 12:03 PM

Bro, u r fine trust me, I am not an MD but I am a health care professional , and u dont need to ask Dr. H or even Dr. Bob. as far as ur wife, try to learn from ur mistakes, and remember that curiosity killed the cat ;) , so try and make it up for ur wife and be good to her, and avoid this behavior in the future if u really love ur wife. As far as HIV, u dont have it buddy, so move on. If u r still worried sick, get a test at the 13 weeks mark , collect ur negative results and move on, but otherwise, u r fine. Take care buddy and stay well .

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Re: Single Exposure Unprotected Oral Sex w/ TS Esc new
      #205221 - 08/28/06 12:32 PM

Thanks to all



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