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keeponliving
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Reged: 08/06/06
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any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!!
      #203066 - 08/10/06 04:27 AM

just tested positive, n life is changed thoroughly! lost my lover,he just ran away after i told him that am infected hiv.dunno where to turn now. anyone can help me !!!!

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Angel_Ronnie
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Reged: 06/01/06
Posts: 256
Loc: Gauteng, South Africa
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #203073 - 08/10/06 07:57 AM

Sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I went thru the same thing of a lover running away and I can say he is not worth your love nor your good energy. Better that he ran now than in a few months when you need him most. though I can't provide you with the info that you need but only a kind word of compassion. "no-man is worth your tears, and the one who is would never make you cry"

God Bless....

Angel

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Anonymous
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Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #203107 - 08/10/06 12:02 PM

There is a site its http://www.poz4poz.net/

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Bear60
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Reged: 12/21/05
Posts: 1390
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #203110 - 08/10/06 12:33 PM

Hi
I dont mean to seem like I am questioning your post...but the title implies you are looking for a dating site and your post implies that you have just tested poz and have been left in the dust by a lover/ partner. I have to say that this is the worst time to be looking for a dating site. You need to take care of yourself first and when you have recovered from all this shock and upset, THEN look at dating.
Most of the time people here advise that it's better to wait until you have adjusted to HIV before going out and dating. Are you going to be comfortable telling your potential partner that you are HIV positive (for instance) ???????

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DanielMark
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Reged: 06/06/04
Posts: 120
Loc: Ottawa Canada
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #203123 - 08/10/06 03:24 PM

"just tested positive, n life is changed thoroughly!"

Hmm,

How long ago did you actually test Poz? If you “just” tested positive, you’ve got a lot of adjusting to do.

I have to concur with Bear that this likely isn't the most ideal time to go running around looking for a mate.

Daniel

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Anonymous
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Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #203182 - 08/11/06 06:55 AM

www.gay.com
subscribe to it, you do not even have to pay fees, but your access is limited(can not see private pics, etc) in the pull down menu for chat rooms, look for hiv+, or just simply make your profile and stated that you are poz. you will be surprise of how many guys are in the same boat.
good luck.
keep smiling, people who are out of our life are people that at the real end we did not need. the ones who stay and prove their care, those are the real ones. love, relationship can not be something of convience, and if it is, then is not something valuable.

there is someone outthere for you, with a better heart.


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MikeStone47
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Reged: 08/25/06
Posts: 4
Loc: Southgate, MI
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #204869 - 08/25/06 02:32 AM

I guess I'm pretty much in the same boat. I tested posative earlier this year and it appears my partner (of 22 years) cannot accept this change so here's another slice of life to throw on the already full plate I have. Also, being an older gay man, it's a pretty lonely place to be (old and POZ).

What I have found, however, is that finding friends is more important than dating or actively searching for another partner. There are just too many things going on in my life to be able to slide into another LTR after these changes. If it weren't for my true friends I'd have sunk, but I think now I may make it.


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Bradly
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Reged: 08/26/06
Posts: 12
Loc: Long Beach, CA, US
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #204994 - 08/26/06 02:12 AM

I understand the desire to not go through this alone, support can be very important. If you're not sure you want to jump back into dating there may be HIV+ support groups in your area, although I have had mixed results with them. They can be very depressing as they descend into 'pity-parties'.

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terryA
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Reged: 03/18/05
Posts: 17
Loc: San Leandro, CA., usa
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #205104 - 08/27/06 02:41 PM

Try: "http://personal.poz.com"
No chat, but best and largest variety of people.
Or for chat try: "http://www.hivnet.com"

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FredCba
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Reged: 08/28/06
Posts: 10
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #205183 - 08/28/06 09:35 AM

Don't let the ghosts haunt you!!! I felt the same way but someone told me the following and it did work: keep walking in life as everybody does every single day. Don't get obsessed that nobody will love you or want to be with you again. Keep your heart and mind open for the right person to arrive next, but don't panic. Just get on with life and all it has to offer us despite our infection. Hope you'll feel better soon.

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george33
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Reged: 04/06/08
Posts: 2
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #238310 - 04/06/08 09:19 PM

be there for yourself , when i found out i was positive i didnt want anyone to be aroun d i had to make some very tough decisions . dont give up on yourserlf remember your still that beautiful person you where before you found out.

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STDAsk
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Reged: 12/20/12
Posts: 33
Loc: NYC
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #270342 - 01/24/13 11:59 PM

Try http://www.hmeet.com dating site for people living with hiv





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Meet Singles and friends share your HIV
http://www.hmeet.com

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JoJo1234
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Reged: 04/02/13
Posts: 11
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #271646 - 04/11/13 09:49 PM

I recommend you try PositiveChats.com . It is the #1 dating community for people with HIV. 100% Anonymous

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http://www.HIVromances.com - The largest HIV Dating community in the world. Free to Join

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PozGays
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Reged: 02/28/13
Posts: 10
Re: any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!! new
      #271794 - 04/23/13 11:24 PM

Yes. http://www.PozGays.com is your best choice. I have been here for 2 years.

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