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sexual issues when HIV+
#86967 - 02/11/04 06:27 PM
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Hi everyone! I'm a magazine writer for an HIV publication and I'm currently at work on an article about how to handle it when your partner wants to have unprotected sex. I'm focusing on the psychological, personal, decision-making stuff that comes before the actual sex act. Even if you haven't encountered such a situation, I'd be interested to hear how you think you'd deal with it. Obviously, this is a delicate topic, so you can be interviewed under an assumed name.
Thanks so much for reading this, and I look forward to hearing from you! Sincerely, Jessica Brown 718-855-5998 JLeigh718@aol.com
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You can't do anything sometimes...and you know it's fun to break the rules once in a while. You don't really think you'll die.
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What a sick response! This is exactly how this disease is spreading so fast. It;s people like you who simply don't care. I was in a relationship with a positive husband who would force his unprotectected penis in my mouth.
I was even raped by him (he used a condom this time). In my opinion, hiv positive people should not have sex with anyone. Naybe then if people took responsibility, there would be no need for anyone to acquire their disease.
My advice to anyone married to a hiv positive sposue is to leave or stop having sex. It's just not worth risking your life for a few moments of pleasure. I am not an advocate of adultery, however if there ever was a good reason for adultery, being married to a hiv positive spouse is it.
People shoudl always think about the consequesnce before doing the deed. I will contact the reporter about my experiences in greater detail.
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I'm interested in sharing my story with you.. . Wiling to email you my details in private. I am currenlty seeing someone who has HIV... We are in love and have to deal with this issue..It is a challenge for me however I have not told him completely..
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I'm sorry you had such a terrible ordeal with your husband. And any man like that doesn't deserve to be with anybody. It must have been very terrifying for you, and I am truly sorry. And I'm sure this is why you believe what you believe, but why do you feel as though people who have hiv don't deserve to have a normal sexual relationship like everybody else. I really think you harbor alot of anger because of what your husband did to you, and he deserves exactly what the good Lord will give or do to him. But I think you also need to get some help and seek some counseling, or you will bottle this anger inside you and never truly be able to love again. Love and prayers to you.
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