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mato96
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Partner refuses to accept my status *DELETED*
      #266431 - 09/11/12 05:42 AM

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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #266432 - 09/11/12 06:17 AM

I have read several times that pregnancy may cause false positive results.

If you tested positive in the Elisa, this result MUST be confirmed with a more specific test called Western Blot. This test confirms or not the infection.

Your boyfriend is wrong by asking you to "confirm" with a Rapid test (?) You must do the Western Blot test.

I hope all will turn OK. Please do keep us posted.

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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #266433 - 09/11/12 06:22 AM

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I'm 4 months pregnant and already he is talking about taking the baby after birth so that i dont infect him (its a boy). I'm trying to come to terms with the situation and he is not helping at all and whenever i try talking to him he shuts me down...




By the way, your boyfriend is an idiot and very ignorant about HIV. IF you were Positive, and your baby is born Negative, the baby will keep his negative status just avoiding breastfeeding.



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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #266438 - 09/11/12 09:12 AM

Who the heck does he think he is saying he'll take your baby away. I think he's the one that needs to be taken away. The man doesn't know squat about Hiv or even how to be considerate. He needs some education and counseling before he opens his damn mouth again. How dare he say such a thing to his " girlfried " when shes under enough stress with being pregnate. He's an insensitive B-------D.

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      #266489 - 09/12/12 02:15 AM

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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #266537 - 09/13/12 02:38 PM

Be thankful that he has moved out . Better to be a singles parent than to bring a child into this world with a as as a father. Change your locks, get his stuff out. Live your life for yourself and your child , who will be fine just as you will be fine. Hang in there with the meds , it'll all settle down. Take care and God bless you both, mother and child.

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A_reason2smile
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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #266579 - 09/14/12 10:49 PM

This man has really made me upset! Who the hell does he think he is getting off treating you like yesterday's trash, I tell you what...you tell him to give me a call and i will school him on his ignorance! Some people really need to understand th inittial news is shock and stressful and you don't need that because our pregnant. Well let me know if you want me to stress him out lol

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Re: Partner refuses to accept my status new
      #268221 - 10/17/12 10:54 AM

The man doesn't know squat about Hiv or even how to be considerate. He needs some education and counseling before he opens his damn mouth again.

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