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HIV Poz Bttm needs Sexual Advice
      #247978 - 10/14/09 02:48 AM

Hey guys, I tested poz in March 2009. Since then, I have recently gotten into a relationship. I let my partner know and he was little hestiant but became okay with it. What a relief, its seems he was a gift sent to me.

Anyway, my question is about sex.

We have had sex....protected and it has been wonderful. However, he (not me) has asked to have sex with me now unprotected. I didnt know what to think at first. I dont want to do it and he get infected, but i also heard that the chances for the top to get infected are much lower than a bottom.

Please guys...anyone, help me with some advice. I dont want some good sex to maes up my jugdgement.

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      #248054 - 10/17/09 03:54 PM

Are you on meds? Are you undetectable? If so the risk is low but still there. However, personally, I'd be uncomfortable with the idea. As for facts, yes, a top can get it from a poz bottom in just one encounter.

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