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just tested positive
#194443 - 06/04/06 11:10 AM
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Iam a 47 yrs old female. My partner for 7yrs tested neg. i am very confuse how could this happen. i never saw any actual test stated that he is neg we well i never slept with anyone else.my daugher is pos he trying to tell me that i got it from her a cut with a razor that could be true but what about him we never use protection he had a los of difference girls i dont no please i need an answer
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How old is your daughter? And I don't think a razor would of gave you HIV. It would of had to have fresh blood on it and you would of had to cut yourself in a few seconds after
her using it. Do you clean your bath tub with bleach after
her use? I know that Hiv can live inside of a blood clot for a longer period of time. Your husband can go to the health dept
and they will give him a paper of his results if he request the paper
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the HIV virus is really fragile, particularly outside the human body. It can't survive on a non-porous surface for long (no more than a few mi nutes.) and on a porous one, no more than (conservative estimate) 8 hours.
If you've never engaged in sexual acts with anyone else, have no experience with iv drug use..I'd say it was probably your husband. (unless you and your daughter do that childhood ritual where you cut your fingers and hold them together..)
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my answer is that the guy is an asshole and is lying to you. he probably has hiv and he's known about it for a while and he gave it to you.
have you been sharing razors with your daughter since she's had hiv? it is possible to get hiv that way but it's not very likely.
it's much more likely that the jerk knew he had hiv and he passed it to you. if he tests positive, he might blame you for giving it to him. but i really doubt that's the case. he's probably cheated on you with many different women. if he doesn't want to seek medical attention because he is in denial that he has hiv, that's his problem. you make you sure you get the help that you and your daughter need so you can healthy lives.
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i am sorry about your results.
one advice. if your partner really loves you, and support you, he should test with you next time you go to see your hiv doctor. why?, well you are not sure how you got it, and there is only 2 people besides you involved. placing the blame in someone not been comepletely sure, is not fair to your daugther.
so, if he is really negative, and did not give you this to you, at least you have that answered, no wonder no more, and focus in what you need to do to pass this.
as you stated, he has been with many others with out protection. i do not want to sound pesimist, but i have more inclination to think that this is more linked to your partner than your daughther.
there is chanegs to getting infected byrazor, and such, but the higher risk is sexual encounters with out protection.
so, if your ask me, i will ask my partner first.
good luck my dear. we are here to heard you out.
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