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just another concern about been a top!
      #193226 - 05/26/06 11:00 AM

i am a little comfused...
i am also a top. i only been bottom a few time only with my BF after been tested negative. i am in a new relationship where i am the top, and we barely havee sex. i will say every 5 months or so. i know sounds weird, but i do love this person, sex is not there. so, i have engage in annonymous sex with people from the internet, bath houses, and clubs. in all of this i have not allowed myself to perform oral sex on them, and only have allow oral sex on me if i have seen the person more than 5 times, and i feel comfortable with it. in all the occasions i have wear condoms. sometimes more than one, and always have check tem for ropture.
will that put me at the same odds that everone are talking in here?
just comfused, thanks for your opinions.

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Re: just another concern about been a top! new
      #193548 - 05/29/06 07:36 PM forgot to say...never double up the condoms...wear one at a time...right...(more chance of breaking?).

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Re: just another concern about been a top! new
      #193572 - 05/30/06 02:07 AM

Unprotected sex regardless of whether you're a top or bottom is EXTREMELY RISKY. Always use ONE condom for EVERY sexual encounter!! Sex in a monogmous relationship is always the safest sex. Talk to your partner about having relations more often thereby alleviating the need for you to go get sex elsewhere.

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