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Scared to Death
#93707 - 03/29/04 02:16 PM
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Let me start by saying that I am 17 and scared to death. I recently put myself in a really bad situation. I decided to go ahead and try experimenting with a guy. Well I met a guy online. I know I know, STUPID. Long story short, he tried to enter me anally, with a condom, he tried a couple of times and then asked me to let him try without the condom, I told him no, but I think that he may have tried to without it anywayswithout me knowing. If he did I know that there would have been pre cum. He had a lot. If he did enter me it was for no more than 2 seconds and just the head. I have no one to talk to and hope that someone can help me. I am just falling apart and don't know what to do. Could I be dying? Can someone help me out here?
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you need to get tested hiv and all std's.anal sex is very risky.please don't ever let any guy do what ,he wants to do with your body,regardless how good looking he is etc.trust only you and be careful about where you meet this guys .they can be dangerous. i'm 32 ,woman and also made alot of bad choices.LOVE YOURSELF!
TAKE OF YOURSELF,YOU ARE NUMBER ONE
LOVES AND HUGS
PAOLI'I
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If he was wearing a condom you are ok. If not, you need to get tested for everything! And remeber that if you don't know some guy then you should not let him do what he wants to you. Anal sex is really really dangerous with someone you don't know. Just wait 3 months and get tested for ALL sexually transmitted diseases! Including HPV.
Good luck. Love YOURSELF!
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Hey there!!
OK me? poz for 21years. It happens. The only advice i can give you is go and get yrself tested. IMHO you should be fine, wiser and more wary..... that's a good thing even if you hafta go thru hell to get there.
But go get the test..... clear the question up once and for all. And stay safe. I hope yr neg but if the worst happens and yr not you're still in good company. There are a lot of us out here who are poz and healthy and happy. Either way, deal with the stress and the unknown. get the test.
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There is no test for HPV.
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I don´t think there´s so much risk.
Anyway, there are great experts here online. They can explain things to you perfectly.
If you want to contact me write to
bibcav.maj@trocha.cav.sld.cu
I´m not 0+ and can be a good friend.
Junior, from Cuba
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Hey what's up. I'm 17 and did the same thing as you - hooked up with a guy off the internet. I know it seems so stupid know, but it just seemed like the only option at the time, huh? Anyway, the guy ended up fingering me and I was concerned there may have been precum on his fingers. Everyone tells me this is almost zero risk.
I've been doing a lot of research and I'm surprised how negative everyone's response was to your post - being a teen forum i thought people might be more optimistic. The fact is that if the guy actually WAS Hiv + and he full on came in you (which he didn't), then you would have anywhere from a 1/50 chance to 1/500 chance of contracting HIV. Since the guy didn't even cum in you, those risks are significantly lowered. Also, pre-cum doesn't carry the same potency of HIV as regular cum, some people argue that you can't even catch it from precum (although it's debateable). Furthermore, the amount of precum that this dude could have gotten up your bum is probably negligible. All in all, I'd say everything's working in your favor - and trust me, I can relate! If you wanna chat about it my e-mail is hotscotch1818@yahoo.com
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Hi! I'm 21 and a med student. I'm busy with my HIV training block so the knowledge is relatively updated. Please do yourself a favour and get tested for HIV and other STD's. Remember that any possible exposure is a risk even though the exposure was minimal. Living in fear by not knowing if you're okay is going to make you miserable and you're going to miss out on fun things in life that you should be enjoying. Go and talk to some one. Hope every thing works out for you and remember that no matter what the outcome even if its bad - IT'S NOT THE END.
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There is a test for HPV, they can detect it through a pap smear .I have a friend who came back possitive for it and she was notified by the health department where she was tested to come for treatments and all is going well with her ,Rule of thumb if its sexually transmitted there is a test no matter what the disease either through blood or pap it can be found .Hope all test come back clear , let this be a learning lesson never trust anyone at your back door!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hi, first and most importantly you need to sit down and have a talk with this guy. Ask him all the Questions you want. Then you need to go to your local clinic and get yourself checked out just to make sure everything is okay. Next you need to talk with your parents i know you are afraid and you don't want them to know but they are there to help you not hurt you. Final, don't do it again you are too young to be exposing your self to that kind of danger.
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no its not possible u r absolutely alright according to me caus FOR TRANSMISSIOn there has to be lot of Body fluid present ..but pre cum doesnt contain much of it,, so CHEERZ .get tested u will be FINE i m sur eof that
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