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My boyfriend thinks that he is HIV positive
      #78999 - 12/05/03 05:14 AM

My boyfriend thinks that he is infected, he went for 2 tests and they were both negative, now he says that he has to wait 3 months which will be in jan from the time it happened. I am going insane and he is getting sick... I don't know what to do and how can I support him, he wants me to leave him and move on with my life coz im only 21, but i can't.. he is my life he is my luv..



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Re: My boyfriend thinks that he is HIV positive new
      #79005 - 12/05/03 10:43 AM

We need a little more info. If he had 2 tests, how far apart were the tests. Usually, 2 negative tests equals negative results.
Try looking at this from another angle. Is he as young as you? Is he looking for a way to get out of the relationship? Is he experimenting with homosexuality and feeling guilty about it? It's very dangerous for you to be having sex with a man who is having sex with other men, that's how most women get HIV.
During this uncertain time make sure you have safe sex every time, even oral sex.
And at 21, as much as you love him, you do not want to be connecting your life to someone who may be unsure about himself.



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Re: My boyfriend thinks that he is HIV positive new
      #79090 - 12/09/03 11:46 AM

Why does he think he has HIV? Is he trying to link every single illness to it? What exactly is his exposure? If the tests were done around the 60 day more or greater, he is likely negative. Until then, if he is still convinced he has it, use protection with him until he knows for sure.



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Re: My boyfriend thinks that he is HIV positive new
      #79173 - 12/14/03 02:26 PM

my boyfriend is pos and he has pushed me away. he told me to move on also. there is nothing u can do it takes time i know how u feel i really do i am so hurt i love him too keep in touch with me!



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