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dogman
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no sex and i dont know how not to take it personal
      #249879 - 03/25/10 11:07 AM

Me and my BF are not having sex no more. I'm negative and he's positive. And I love him more then life it self.. But I'm starting to take the rejection personal. Is there something I should be doing or trying to make the feeling go away?or something we should try to do? Any help or comments is greatly appreciated. I just want to do what's right for us.

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RunningScared
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Re: no sex and i dont know how not to take it personal new
      #249918 - 03/29/10 07:00 PM

Although it is easier said than done, try not to take it personally. I am in your shoes - my husband is positive and I am negative. Our sex life has become almost nonexistent since he learned his diagnosis last year. He is very worried that he will infect me. I can understand where he is coming from, but it is still frustrating nonetheless.

If your boyfriend is up for it you may want to consider counseling, or whatever it may take to make him feel more comfortable.

And don't forget about taking care of yourself. Make sure you are still getting what it is out the relationship as well.

Best wishes.

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worried09
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Re: no sex and i dont know how not to take it personal new
      #249955 - 04/05/10 03:51 PM

I had the same problem with my wife i'm poz she's not before we found out we had sex all the time but after we found out things were not the same in the bed room.Times have changed she said she need time to adjust to this she was just num to everything she had to get over her issuses she was dealing with.It's not only a big change in ur life it also a change in his life also so just give him a little time and things will change,they did for me.

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dogman
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Re: no sex and i dont know how not to take it personal new
      #249960 - 04/06/10 08:22 AM

Thanks for all the advise. My BF was positive before we met. And the sex was there for about a month or so. And poof gone. I am going to continue to give him as much time as he needs. With hope that It will get better. I do love him a great deal. And do what ever is need to make us happy.


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