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#216072 - 11/28/06 12:42 AM
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Alright, since there is no real way to say this delicately, here goes; if my positive partner cums on me, and we wait 30 seconds, can I (being negative) safely swallow his cum since it would be exposed to the air?
Thanks everyone...
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i do not want to sound rude, but here it goes.
if you really know the status of your partner, and is poz. then why you even think about risking yourself to it?
what point are you trying to prove to him/her...love?
i think that anyone knowingly exposed him/herself, them should not even been asking questions that he/her already knows.
safe sex is a must at all time, and if you know your partner is poz, then you should take a extra step of been careful, not reckless like you had.
sorry, but i can not understand why in 2006 we do not understand the seriousness of these matter, and how is afecting so many people. we have seen our friends, love ones, family suffer or die from it...so why we are so stupid about it??
sorry if it was too rude or hard for you, but there is not symphaty from me to anyone who put him/herself at risk just to play with luck.
good day.
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eleniel
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swallow away. and while you're at it, buy a gun and shoot yourself..spare us of your stupidity!
fucking moron. DON'T swallow it!
Jeez...
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living in rage?, you should see therapy, you do not need this forum, you need counseling.
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Well, the paranoid and the rude posters aside.
My unscienctific opinion is , probably not a problem.
Since giving oral is considered such a low risk (1 in 10,000) to begin. Also looking at the studies with the sero-discorant couple where no one become infected from unprotected oral sex. The fact that Saliva has a protein that has been shown to inhibit transmission, and then adding the virus being outside it's element, if there was a risk, it would be infitestimal, about a C-hair close to none. But no one can absolutely say, no risk.
See here's the thing. That's the best anyone will be able to tell you. You have to make up your mind what risk, if any, are OK for you.
For the above poster, any risk is too much. That may very well strain that person's relationship to the point that they can't continue. Being in a relationship with someone HIV+ is not for the faint of heart.
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Eleniel,
I hope today is a better day for you. I hope whatever is causing you so much pain gets resolved.
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Wow. Such hostility. Perhaps you holier-than-thous misread me. I have NOT done this; I am checking prior to it. Maybe you too have heard that the virus "dies" once exposed to air. My question was in reference to what the "shelf life" is, as it were. Oh yes. I'm going right out to purchase a gun and blow my stupid ass away. Fuck you.
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Supposedly, as far as i know, when fluids are dry you can be sure that the virus is "dead"... so, if you wanted to do that 100% safe you would have to wait 'till the semen dried.
I think counting seconds does not guarantee anything.
Just one question... Why would anyone want to lick/swallow dry semen? mmm... well, that's not my buisness... i was just curious (just as you are)
Well, choices are upon you... if you want to "take chances" is upon you too, no-one has the right to insult whatever decision you make... plus, i hate that "russian-roulette" argument (it's causes terror and doesn't help understand the situation)
Okie...
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no, I'm fine. But I hate seeing people repeat the same mistakes over and over.
And at least I have the guts to put a name AND a face where my mouth is.
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fine, you want me to say it a little bit more kindly?
ok
Until the semen is dry, there's no way to be certain the virus is dead. (there are a TON of factors involved..dry is the only way to be sure)
Swallow if its an acceptable risk to you. Meaning, understand the risk you take and THEN decide whether or not its worth going through with. Regardless of what you choose, be willing to accept the consequences of your actions.
But please, make an educated decision.
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A heartfelt thank you to those folks kind enough to answer a simple question instead of insulting me and wishing I would blow my brains out to spare somebody my "stupidity". I'm doing my best to educate myself as I care very much for my partner and myself.
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This is pretty much an Hiv support website, and people that HAVE this virus are actually accessing it. Show us some respect, don't bother us with childish questions about your sex life. Go to an intelligent doctor and ask all of your questions. And by the way, you just told someone that i deem part of my circle to go fuck themselves. We're tight knit group around here, so my advice. YOU go FUCK yourself, and leave OUR website alone.
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I cannot belive some of the rude responces to your original post! I thought this was a place where we can ask questions and get answers. Not be degraded and cursed at.
I don't belive that your question was dumb at all. I am negative and my boyfriend is positive, I have heard that the virus "dies" once it hits air, and have wondered the same question as you. I figure it's better to ask a question and be safe than find out the wrong way later.
Thank you for your original question.
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