Full disclosure.....isn't everyone entitled to it?

[quote]For your information........I left him. The mental and emotional abuse from him became unbearable. I have six children, three of each, and he took out his aggressions on us. The HIV+ guy cried like a baby when I left because I was the one who kept the household together. It is easy to judge someone when you have no idea what you are talking about. I stuck by my husband through things that you could not imagine. My husband took my life and the life of my children in his hands by not telling me that he was infected, but I stayed. He was physically abusive, and I stayed. Making excuse after excuse for his behavior until I realized that I was being abused because he could not take it out on the on the one who infected him because she was dead!!!!!!!! I suffered through the tantrums, the destructive phases, and the deep depression. I watched him wilt away to nothing because he did not want to fight. Right and wrong decisions are made by everyone, but when your are MARRIED, you make them together. I did not leave my husband because I did not love him, I left him to save myself/kids from the person that he became. I love him dearly, talk to him every day, still pick him up from work and cook dinner for him and my step child often. I am sorry that you think that I am trying to be a martyr, but if that is what it takes to slow the progressions of the HIV+ population in one of the nation’s highest rated cities, then so be it!!!!!!

I assume you are doing the same thing that he does, making everyone else pay for your mistakes. That is the problem with most hivers. You never take responsibility for YOUR problems. It is not the neg population's fault that you were careless and allowed yourself to be infected. Blame the person who infected you and yourself for not protecting yourself. I took care of him despite the fact that he lied to me. Most hivers believe that the only person that this disease affects is them. Our entire family was HIV+. We adjusted our diets and daily living to accommodate this disease. Not because we had to, we wanted to let him know that he was not in this alone. IT IS CALLED SUPPORT!!!!!!

I have a step-daughter who lost her mother, will lose her 21 year old brother, and more than likely her father before she graduates high school because of SILENCE. Her mother did not tell her father that she was HIV+ until she was on her death bed. Why would you condone that type of behavior? This disease affects everyone in the family. STOP thinking that it is all about you. Think about the people around you who have to deal with your side affects to the medication, the constant mood swings, the depression, the late night trips to the hospital, the inability to work due to the neropathy, the headaches, etc…….

I got the feeling that you are just like him, protecting you precious sex life instead of the life of another human being. There is nothing wrong with caring for another life. If someone cared about you, maybe you would not be HIV+!!!!!!! Don't you wish that you would have known prior to being infected? Don't you replay that series of events that led up to it over and over again, trying to figure out how you could have prevented it? [/quote]

What a soap opera. No wonder you're such a bitter bitch.

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