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Wannakiss
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Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please
      #193222 - 05/26/06 04:19 AM

I'm a gal who met a guy who's HIV pos, about a month ago, and we had affinity at once. We make eachother laugh, and we talk openly and I'm nutbars about him. This is personal, we've kissed, that was niccccee, and next we'll "do it", I just want to be a strong enough person, to take this beautiful man into my life. Trying to take it slow. We really get eachother. He's deep, he's strong, he's funny, and when he smiles at me, I think he knows what I'm thinking. I want to be closer to him physically, I've read alot about HIV, I want to hear from PEOPLE, so my emotional side will stop being anxious, I just want to "be" with him, we've done totally non-contact but enjoyable stuff, IS IT OKAY? CAN WE HAVE SEX? IS IT SAFE? The bigger gamble for me, is love.

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Choosing2Liv
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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #193250 - 05/26/06 10:09 AM

Hey man-

You may have written this post TO someone else, but it was FOR me (and my bride). My wife cried last night for about an hour, laminating over how I have ruined our sex life forever. When she is a little more receptive, I will definitely share this post with her.

Thank you VERY much!
-G


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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #193347 - 05/26/06 08:55 PM

It couldn't have been said better. *applause*

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So I'll lay here with you until the final goodbye

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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #193516 - 05/29/06 03:33 AM

Dear AIDS2HIV, I am unable to PM you, perhaps you could PM me? I have some questions about the responsibility of not breaking his heart and not getting my heart broken. These things are holding me back. The other night, he said that he felt alive for the first time in a long time, it made me feel good, but I think I thought too deeply about it. The beginnings of like to love is confusing. I really like him, how should I take what he said? I have empathy. I've been through, and am not out of it yet, with cancer. Any calming words? I don't want to blow it.

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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #193528 - 05/29/06 09:32 AM

wanakiss.......... in order send a private message you have to register.....once you have a nickname and a password to sign in with, you may send private messages to other registered users.

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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #196306 - 06/16/06 07:04 AM

WK,

You are an awesome person to want to find out what you can or can't do!! I applaude you for that. Because by doing so, you are a bigger person than the ones who just run away at the mere whisper of HIV.

Just follow A2H's advice, because it's the best laid out response.

Follow your heart too. If you really like this guy, just know that having sex with him (protected of course!) will be all that you expected (anticipated!).

Check this portion of The Body's help forums: http://thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Archive/MagneticCouples/index.html

That should give you some insight on your questions.

Good luck!

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The reason angels can fly is that they take themselves so lightly. ~ Chesterton G. K.

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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #196537 - 06/17/06 10:21 PM

Hi... i've just read your post (yes, i know it was posted some time ago, but... ) and i do have a wonderful man in my life, too (who happens to be hiv+, too)! We've been together for almost 3 years now... so, i've (we've) been learning a lot of this thing they call "mixed-status relationship".
So, if you need someone to talk to... (sometimes i do, too) magnetically_in_love@yahoo.com <-- that's my mail address, feel free to contact me =)


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Re: Met great guy, who's HIV+, wisdom needed please new
      #198121 - 06/28/06 06:27 PM

First thing, it was so cool of youto post this on my birthday. I know that it was some time ago and I am so so late, but I have to say BRAVA!!!! You are one of the brave ones who have found love in spite of HIV/AIDS. I too found love. I lost him 9 months ago to AIDS. He was truly my soulmate. He too could just look at me and know all my thoughts. I miss him very much but I would not change one simgle thing with him. I would do it all over agin. You can love in spite of ot all.

When we met I was neg. I still chose to be with him. I became poz later on. I know that you are scared, but it will be okay. If you need to talk PM.

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HIV is a part of me, but it does not define me!!!

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