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Marrying an HIV+ man
      #18703 - 06/25/01 04:31 PM

I am dating a man that is HIV+. I want to marry him but my family is against it and the only thing that holds me back is a fear of becoming infected, and also watching him die from this illness. Anyone out there that can offer counsel?



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Re: Marrying an HIV+ man new
      #19038 - 07/09/01 02:55 PM

If you feel you are going to watch him die when you get married then do not cheat him by marrying him. HIV/AIDS is not a chronological death and can not be planned. I too am a member of a +/- relationship (I am the - person). I fear infection also, but have done extensive research to learn all possible. I know you are confused, but seek some form of understanding through knowledge or counseling. Know that many people have safe, stable relationships with one person + and the other - Hang in there, you will figure out what is best for you and your loved one. Until then engage only in sexual activity you feel comfortable with



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Re: Marrying an HIV+ man new
      #23203 - 10/10/01 12:31 PM

I just got married in June to a +man. I fell in love with him the minute I saw him. At first my parents weren't to happy with my decision. But I had confidence in myself and knew that He was who I wanted to be with. As far as death is concerned, I can't deny that I don't think about it. It is hard to look at his face and see what he is going through. My husband has a very positive out look on life. I know what it is like not to have anyone but we live a very nomal life and We are currently trying to concieve. Things will get better. Just pray! He'll listen! If you want to talk e-mail me live4labs@aol.com



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Re: Marrying an HIV+ man new
      #28264 - 02/13/02 03:41 PM

My Fiance and I recently found out he was HIV+, I'm negative. We've been together for 2 year and have a 1 year old son together. We will get married in April. His HIV status has changed nothing, I love him the same. As for our families opinion, that's easy, we haven't told them and don't intend to. It's not their business. We are coping just fine together. I had/have some fear of him dying, but the truth is tomorrow is promised to no one. People with HIV do not have a automatic death sentence, they can live long and productive lives as long as they take care on themselves. It just lets the both of us know that our time here on Earth is precious and we should live life to the fullest. Go ahead and get married!



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Re: Marrying an HIV+ man new
      #111744 - 09/20/04 06:50 AM

Hie

l fully understand what you are going through.l fell in love with this guy and he told me about his status.First of all l was afraid but my love for him conquered all my fears and all of a sudden l wanted to be there for him more that before.He wants to marry him but lm soo afraid of dying and seeing him die.l dont know what to do and l havent told anyone from my family.its so hard isnt to know that the man you love is going to die.Sometimes l wish he had never told me.l know you love this guy like l do mine so what are we going to do?

Love Someone in your shoes

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