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Hurting Inside
      #18287 - 06/08/01 12:14 PM

I am a lesbian and just found out that my partner has AIDS for the past ten years. My first reaction was to get angry,then scared and last but not least hurt, because I am a mother of 3 children. I was or shall I say I am scared because my partner knew and did not tell me. Not because she didn't want to but because she was afraid of loosing me. I am not educated in the virus but am learning day by day. I know longer am angry but only hurt. I hurt because she's a wonderful and good hearted woman. She's caring and fun and I love her very much. I was angry because all my life I have been searching for someone just like her and now I have found her and am afraid of loosing her. I just don't hurt for myself but I hurt for her as well. I am looking for support and advice to help me be strong for the both of us.



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      #18307 - 06/08/01 04:40 PM

I to have to deal with the same issue. I can only try to offer some support.if you like you can cantact me at domoremaintenance@email.com and i can give you some of the support places i know.



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      #18330 - 06/11/01 04:37 PM

Are you having safe sex? Realize that it's quite difficult for a woman to transmit HIV to her female partner (it's possible, just not easy). Has she put you in danger ever? If she was very careful always about this then she cares about you. If she has not been careful then she is not your friend --in my opinion.
Sheryl



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      #18342 - 06/12/01 09:08 AM

Sheryl,

Thank you for responding. Before she mentioned about being infected she was and is very careful when we are being intimate. She's a wonderful person. And she lets me know always how much she cares and how much she loves me. I will be joining her in her counseling sessions because I need to feel a little more secure and educate myself with the virus.

Please continue to respond. I'm so scared of being infected but most importantly I'm scared of loosing her.

Thank you for your support.




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