The Body: The Complete HIV/AIDS Resource
Follow Us Follow Us on Facebook Follow Us on Twitter Download Our App 
Professionals >> Visit The Body PROThe Body en Espanol

Family and Friends >> My Loved One Has HIV/AIDS

Pages: 1
New User

Reged: 03/09/01
Posts: 1
      #16354 - 03/09/01 09:39 PM

my brother has aids ,he is not gay,but was a drug user...we dont know how long he has had aids,but he got spinal meingitous,,,the doctor says,,its bad when this happens..see my brother has had meningitous 3 times,,,they never told him he would have to keep taking medicine for meningitous,so every time he got feeling better ,he stopped meds...anyways,,,our family just learned he had aids 4 weeks ago cause he ended up in hospital and a nurse let my mom know,,that they had her son at a nursing home,,,well what i want to know is,,,he is feeling stronger and he knows now to keep taking meds,,,he is in a home but can now visit ,,,weekends...he is in loisiana,,with my other brother,,,i am going to see him for first a week,,,tell me what you think will most likely happen with him physically,,with him having aids and men...tell me what he is going to go through basically,,physically and mentally...i am so lost..i want to have an idea on what he and us will be facing...please help...thankyou,,,

Post Extras: Remind Me!   Notify Moderator  

Re: dying new
      #16357 - 03/10/01 12:22 AM

I's hard to give you a total picture of what to expect. He needs an AIDS specialist for a doctor and he needs to be on medicine for HIV as quickly as possible. This medicine will have to be taken every day of his life but most likely he will be back to a fully functioning person within months. AIDS is not a death sentence any more. It's treatable and controlable. Continue to look around on the internet for more information. This site is one of the better ones but there are many others. The bulletin boards will contain information on how individuals are doing, that may be the first place for you to look, then read about treatment and ouitcome. Good luck and God bless

Post Extras: Remind Me!   Notify Moderator  

Re: dying new
      #16362 - 03/10/01 03:59 AM

he is on meds,,,he just hasnt known long about it,,,im worried about the meningitous mostly..thankyou for you time,,and god bless you too.p.s. he is in a conv.home where he is getting good care,,,just has been trying to fight the spinal,,not easy with aids
..thanks again

Post Extras: Remind Me!   Notify Moderator  

Reged: 10/26/00
Posts: 2028
Re: dying new
      #16370 - 03/10/01 02:12 PM

You said he is on meds, but was that for the meningitis? As anon said. He needs an AIDS specialist. He needs to find out where he is now in respect to viral load, CD4 etc. And if not already, he needs to be on meds to control the virus. None of us can give you a picture of what will happen, but there is a lot that can be done to fight this disease. I know from personal experience with my husband someone can have a viral load in the hundreds of thousands and in his case a cd4 of 7 and still turn it around with the right combination of drugs and proper treatment for OI's. It will be a long, hard road to recovery, but it can happen. Never give up hope! I'll keep him in my prayers.


Post Extras: Remind Me!   Notify Moderator  
Pages: 1

What's New at

Additional Information
0 registered and 1 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  TheBody, bogart, gigi, riverprincess 

      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is enabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Thread views: 4851

Jump to

Contact Us | Privacy Statement The Body

UBB.threads™ 6.2.3