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An active sex life is possible
#1022 - 03/30/00 10:53 PM
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Having an active sex life if you are negative and your partner is positive is really possible. I didn't think so either and so I did a lot of research--I think The Body has an article from Body positive about sex if your partner is HIV positive. Anyway, as long as you always use a condom AND really know how to use this condom, it's ok. You can do lots of other things--using saran wrap.... You just have to be really careful and realize that there have been studies with HIV+/HIV- couples and very few infections. Safe Sex works--you have to just believe in it and be disciplined. Of course you'll find there is a little anxiety for the negative partner--get a friend or a therapist or somebody to talk over your anxiety. --I used to always think about car accidents when I drove since I knew the high rate of accidents and even though I'm still a little afraid on highways I got used to the risk and just am really careful. Good luck! It sounds like you have a sweet son.
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Thanks for the advice re:HIV+/HIV- couples. Once my husband recovers from the chemo (T-cell lymphoma) we both hope he will be up to a go at it(Grin).
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Thank you so much for the advice. I read the article in Body Positive about having safe sex if you are HIV positive and talked (finally) to people in my support group about it. It's true. You can have a sex life! And it is safe if you are ALWAYS careful! MK
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