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bertuccio
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Loc: Colorado
overcoming my fear!
      #227272 - 05/25/07 02:07 PM

I am afraid. I feel like damaged goods now. I don't like these feelings. I feel as though if I divorce my wife that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I don't want to be alone. I am a relational person who enjoys relationships with different people, a lot. I fear that if I take a leap of faith and end this cycle with my wife that no one will want to be close to me again. That is my haunting thought right now. What do I do, where do I go, who do I talk to???

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Bear60
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Re: overcoming my fear! new
      #227286 - 05/26/07 02:35 PM

You need help to get to a place where you do not "feel like damaged goods." Please do not overlook the mental health professionals and their ability to help you.

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alive2
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Reged: 03/08/07
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Re: overcoming my fear! new
      #227305 - 05/27/07 11:36 AM

first thing you should do is talk with someone you can trust .it may help to get ithis thinking out of your system,because i know first hand,exactly how you feel,been there.i agree with bear,you need not look further than mental health specialist.dont be affraid to talk with someone,and just because of the title that person might have dont let it intimidate you,they are there to help.im better off now becaues of it,and people like bear and eric for helping me with the same issues,good luck,and keep the chin up.

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Survivor
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Reged: 10/30/05
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Re: overcoming my fear! new
      #227353 - 05/28/07 09:43 PM

Why do you feel this way? Why do you feel that if you close one door, another one wont open? Give us some history about you and your relationship. We are all very well versed in the relationship relm.. Speak..

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alive2
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Re: overcoming my fear! new
      #227359 - 05/29/07 01:53 AM

eric ,the man who can push you in the right frame of mind.open up,good advice.

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