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No condoms but not ejaculating
      #178095 - 03/02/06 11:30 PM

A friend of mine, whose hubby is pos has sex without condoms, but he doesn't come in her. This has been for several years now and she is still negatiive. What does everyone think about that?

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178098 - 03/02/06 11:45 PM

risky behavior... not a good plan.. nope...

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178120 - 03/03/06 07:19 AM

That is like playing Russian roulette. Not advisable.

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178157 - 03/03/06 12:43 PM

Although it does present a lower risk than allowing her partner to ejaculate inside of her, there is evidence that a significant percentage of hiv positive men have been found to have hiv present in their preejaculatory fluid (precum).

She has been very lucky so far, why not really reduce the risk to almost nil by using condoms correctly every time.

There have been cases reported by people who assert that they have been infected being the receptive partner during anal and/or vaginal sex where there was no ejaculation involved. No one wants to end up being that person.

While she still tests neg, ask her to please reconsider this risky behavior.


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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178159 - 03/03/06 01:31 PM

In reply to all of this, not to sound graghic, never came inside of me and I ended up pregnant and infected. Go figure it can happen.

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178184 - 03/03/06 04:11 PM

I have been positive for the past 19+ years and my partner has been negitive all those years and we still have a great sex life. I would never risk passing HIV to my partner. Your friend and her husband are playing with a loaded gun, it's just a matter of time until it goes off. Take care

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178272 - 03/04/06 01:04 AM

Huh? Are you beeing serious? Okay, then how did that happen?

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178278 - 03/04/06 04:27 AM

Same here....my husband didn't always come in me but I became poz. It only takes a little bit even precum. So tell her to be careful.

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Re: No condoms but not ejaculating new
      #178314 - 03/04/06 09:57 AM

I do not know, you tell me? Yes I am serious. My ex did not cum inside and I now have an 8 year old daughter and HIV.

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