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unprotected vaginal sex
      #64991 - 05/26/03 11:51 PM

i am female and went out with a guy about 6 times over the past few weeks. i really liked him and we had sex 2 times in one night - that was the only time we did it.
we did not use a condom but he pulled out. well, after we had sex, he dumped me the next week. it was the only time we had sex and i asked him if he has any stds and said no - but now ... i find out he has a girlfriend!
we do not speak but now i am worried about stds - i know, its after the fact -
should i test and if so when?
i have read other posts from females and i feel i will be ok but then again ..........
i am scared - what have i done!
thanks



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Hey there ! new
      #65002 - 05/27/03 06:22 PM

hey there,

There is a risk with unprotected vaginal sex , but it is FAR MORE lesser than unprotected anal sex , from a one time encounter.

Might i suggest you try and ask him to go for a test , along with you , so that you can put this thing behind you.

Don't worry.....HIV is a very delicate pathogen and rather difficult to transmit from a one off encounter.That being said , it would be better to insist on your male friends wearing a condom(every time you have sex..........better yet , findout if they are really sincere about having a relationship , by not bringing sex into the equation for awhile.That way , you'll know if they are really interested in you.

I was chastissed the other day for insisting on having sex by this girl.She wanted us to go get tested TOGETHER for ALL the STDs and HIV of course , and it MADE SENSE .Please be more careful next time !

You take care.....come back whenever you can , i'll be here for you.

Cap'n



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Re: so - ---- new
      #65023 - 05/29/03 12:28 AM

So - is it a high risk that precum could infect me if he did have hiv?




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Re: i am scared - what have i done! new
      #65024 - 05/29/03 07:15 AM

i am afraid - what have i done!

no condom, he pulled out - we had 6 dates, the sex sucked, he was so so nice till he dumped me -

he says he doesnt have hiv -
what are my chances if he is lying?

we had sex 2 times in one night - no condom and he pulled out.

any opinions - other than,,,, i should have used a condom?



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Re: Hey there ! new
      #65038 - 05/29/03 05:10 PM

Hey,
Try this site www.aidsmeds.com
They have a very good forum for fear of getting HIV.



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Re: opinions on risk new
      #65044 - 05/29/03 11:10 PM

what are my chances of getting hiv from unprotected vaginal sex with the guy pulling out - no condom used - thanks.



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Re: please answer me about odds new
      #65053 - 05/30/03 11:26 PM

help!



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opinions on risk new
      #65081 - 06/01/03 03:17 PM


Your risk is low. Finito.




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