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vaginal fluids/menstral cycle
#43708 - 11/12/02 08:06 PM
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A girlfriend of mine cheated on me, but did not have sex with her, she told me that they only kissed, well she also went swimming with this other girl and they switched bathing suits bottoms, she was telling me she was concerned because in less than a minute after the other girl took off her bikini bottoms, they exchanged and she put on the other girls bottoms in less than a minute, she also told me that the other girl was at the end of her period, but was wearing a tampon. Is this a risk for my so called girlfriend and myself, her and I have had sex sence then and I need to know if I should get tested.Please Advise for I am having high anxiety!!!!!!! Thank You
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Why don't you ask your 'girlfriend' what the answer was she got.
This is a first on this board. Two different people asking about the same thing. It certainly wouldn't be the first time someone pretended to be someone else in order to ask the very same question over and over and over. What's this, 3 times for this question? And over and over and over you have been told there was no risk.
See a shrink. You certainly need one. You're obessed over nothing.
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did you scrape the blood off the crotch of the swim suit and put it in a syringe and inject it or something?
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This has been covered many times; maybe you should learn more about the transmission of HIV. If they were in a pool the chlorine would kill the virus if the other girl were infected, and the virus dies as soon as it hits air. Also there are more things you need to learn about the transmission.
You can't catch HIV unless another person's body fluids -- blood, semen, or vaginal secretions -- enter your bloodstream. This can happen through the tip of the penis, through the vagina, through the rectum, or through an open wound.
HIV is spread:
By having sex without a condom. Vaginal and anal sex carry a high risk. The risk of getting HIV from oral sex is low.
By sharing needles and/or syringes to inject drugs or steroids.
From a mother to her infant during pregnancy, delivery, or breastfeeding.
By getting a tattoo or piercing from a dirty needle.
By transfusions, blood products, or organ transplants. This kind of transmission no longer happens in developed countries, which test all donated blood and organs for HIV.
You can't get HIV from a toilet seat or from touching an infected person. You can't get HIV from being sneezed or coughed or spit on by an infected person. You can't get HIV from kissing (although there is a theoretical risk from very deep "French" kissing). You can't get HIV from a mosquito, flea, or tick bite.
The G-Man
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G-Man Thank You for your time to answer my question, other people that are so kind to answer my question were not so kind, so thank you for your help and not being jugdemental to me.A word of advise to people who want to help people who are worried and scared like we all are with this disease, be kind and if it seems off the wall to you,if you are going to be rude, keep your mean opinions to yourself, like your parents or gardian says, " If you don't have anything nice to say, DON'T SAY IT AT ALL. You never know what that person maybe feeling, just because you maybe having a bad day. My prayers and good thoughts go out to people who are affected and worried about this disease.
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Nice?
#43777 - 11/13/02 02:32 PM
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I'm not having a bad day. I just don't suffer fools well.
People did answer you nicely the first and even the second time you asked this question. Why should we continue to be nice when you can't seem to understand that asking the same question over and over won't give you a different answer.
There is a limit to what people should be nice about. YOU should have been NICE enough not to waste people's time asking the same question. But I guess you just aren't that NICE. You also pretended to be someone else this time to boot. Pretty Sad.
Of course that doesn't say a lot about you since you wanted advice from people that you hoped would be stupid enough not to notice the same off the wall topic 3 times in one month. It's not easy to forget someone who complains bitterly about the fact no one answered their first post, when in fact there were several replys posted to that before you complained in your second post. It was as if you never even looked at your first post.
I may not be nice, but it sure beats being an airhead.
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#43808 - 11/13/02 07:48 PM
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You spend to much time on analizing my life yes I do suffer from OCD, which means Obsesssive Compulsive Disorder, thank god for this web site so I can get the info I need, sometimes I feel that I was not informative with the question I had asked, so I have doughts, so I ask again, isn't this website for this purpose and screw you about being an airhead , have some compassion for other people before, like I said to be JUDGEMENTAL, Im sorry, I hope I am not wasting anyones time, but I am sure there are people out there the suffer fromm OCD that can understand my situatuation, look it up and read about OCD then maybe your compasionate side will come out. All I can say is that you have a choice to look at this web site and a choice to answer, and you chose to, I did not ask you, I asked someone who could help me to ease my anxiety. Not make people feel worse about this type of situation. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Mean People Suck!!!
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#43809 - 11/13/02 07:52 PM
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Also, this message is directed and the other message I have sent was directed to the JUDGMENTAL one, no one else, thank you to the kind people who did take the time to answer. Again, mean people suck!!!!!
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#43868 - 11/14/02 09:16 AM
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i know how u feel. Don't let people discourage you. If you need reassurance than get it. OCD is an awful disorder which i suffer from, and it makes you worry about things needlessly. I find paxil works somewhat as well as ativan for anxiety. Take care and post as many times as you wish for any support and ignore the mean people. G-man is good, Jackieblue is good and a few others are very kind and are truly helpful. Look to these people for genuine help and compassion
tammy
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#43869 - 11/14/02 09:21 AM
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Oh I have OCD! Please don't be mad at me for my irrational behavior. Please don't be mad at me for feeling sorry for myself! Please don't be mad at me for bringing up silly things when other people have had real exposures and have real concerns. Don't be mean. It's the OCD! Must be nice to have an excuse for your behavior.
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#43870 - 11/14/02 11:49 AM
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Tammy, Bless your heart, thank you for your comment, it means alot. My thoughts are with you, if you ever need any one to talk to, please leave the code OCD, I check periodically. Thank You so much you made my day.
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#43881 - 11/14/02 03:02 PM
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SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE SINGING YOUR OWN [censored] TUNE, YOU ARE A MAJOR [censored] I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU TRY TO HELP PEOPLE ON THIS WEB SITE!!!!! ALL YOU DO IS VENT OUT YOUR OWN FUSTRATIONS ON OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST TRYING TO FIND AN ANSWER, GET A LIFE!!!!! IF YOU ARE SUFFERING FROM AIDS/HIV I AM SORRY THAT SOMETHING TERRIBLE LIKE THAT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU, AND NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, I WILL STILL HAVE YOU IN MY PRAYERS NO MATTER HOW RUDE YOU CAN BE. NO ONE SHOULD SUFFER, BUT UNFORTANTLY WE LIVE IN THIS REALITY. THE MESSAGE I LEFT WAS NOT A FEEL SORRY LETTER, HOW CRUEL CAN YOU BE TO SOMEONE WHO DOES HAVE A REALISTIC MENTAL SITUATION, DO YOU HAVE A COLD HEART, IF SO YOU NEED TO LOOK DEEP DOWN IN YOURSELF AND SEE HOW YOU CAN TRY TO MAKE A NEGATIVE AND MAKE IT A POSITIVE. I REALLY SHOULDN'T WAISTE MY TIME TALKING WITH YOU BACK AND FORTH, BUT I REALLY FEEL THAT YOU HAVE ISSUES AND YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH THEM, INSTEAD OF TAKING IT OUT ON OTHER PEOPLE. AS I WAS SAYING "MEAN PEOPLE SUCK"!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK TO YOU IN THE FUTURE, I REALLY DO HOPE IT IS BRIGHT FOR YOU, NO MATTER HOW RUDE YOU CAN BE. THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!
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