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Reged: 03/26/07
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Loc: México, DF
If we only aren't worried, would be a Happy Christmas for everyone
      #269842 - 12/25/12 12:19 AM

Hi, guys, Finally it's Christmas Eve today.

I hope that you are fine or near to be.

Yesterdfay in the night I found a small sore in my scrotum like a cut and I have been worried since yestarday. I know that isn't probably syphillis, nor gonorrhea. Herpes, perhaps I don't now . This sore is like a cut, it burns a little when soap gets in there. I'm so worried because this Christmas I will visit my wife to spend the Hollidays with her. The image is in this URL: ( is near the small red one, to the right of the brown spot. It appears suddenly,, yesterday I checked and I had nothing,.

Because of my job I didn't have time of getting tested of VRDL. My risk is getting protected sex with female prostitute in a sex shop cabinet as I described on the post (

My life is very difficult at this moments I wish to back in time, but I coudn't do it obviously. I wish to fix all i my life, reconcile with my wife, start a family, be happy. I reconciliate with my wife, but I refuse to make love with her because this situation that is killing and poisoning my mind!.

The sexual intercourse was on November 8th.

As a human, may be I don't deserve it for cheating my wife on two time when I traveled for bussines. I regret and curse the time when I enter to those places for people who look for fake love and pleasure. When you enter to those places, you may lose many things than other tha you are suposed to receive. You loose money, dignity and peace, you will get out of your mind thinking about if you are infected of many things that you wouldn't believe that existed, before those moments. I'm a total sinner, a human scum. I feel so depressed

Damned sex shops, I wish to cry for my desesperation, for the people who become infected, for every marriage and engagement broke up due this situation. Many men, I included myself, we are mean, crazy about sex. We take risk without studying o mesauring consequences, that could be slightly uncofortable or even mortal.

My message is for all of you my friends. I don't know you, but here from Mexico I give you an enormous hug

I hope soon that you receive consolation and peace of mind.

God bless everyone!!!

que será....

Edited by CALEXIS (12/25/12 02:51 AM)

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Reged: 03/26/07
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Loc: México, DF
What kind of test should I carry on?? new
      #269847 - 12/26/12 05:08 AM

Please answer me guys, I feel so desperate!

what STI's test should I do??

que será....

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Re: If we only aren't worried, would be a Happy Christmas for everyone new
      #269851 - 12/26/12 02:22 PM

Make the time to get tested. To me thats a terrible excuse. Go buy a home testing kit and do the test. There is no acceptable excuse.

Look up to the Heavens for the answers to Lifes questions .

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