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What are my chances to be infected with HIV?
#268014 - 10/13/12 05:12 AM
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Hi, I am new here. And like the new members here I am worried about my HIV status. Here is my story. I had sex with my girlfriend(oral and vaginal). Once while we were doing our foreplay I penetrated into her vagina without condom. (Just for less than a second). In few days she shared with me that she was raped earlier this summer (before we met), but so far her test were negative. Well I am not going to hide it - I am freaking out. I want to know what are my chances to be infected (if we assume she got HIV). As I mentioned I gave her oral job and she gave me too. I would like to apologize if my post is not constructed well, but first I am not native English speaker, and second, my mind is under huge pressure.
P.S. The unprotected sex we had (the penetration for less than second) was a month ago...
Thank you in advance.
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riverprincess
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If her tests came back negative , how long ago was her testing done. And if it was as it should be and the tests all came back neg then there is no reason to hit the panic button. Ask her , shes got the info.
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I think she had her test results like a month after that, but I am not sure. I have to ask her no mater how hard it will be for me, because this topic is very delicate for her. I do not want to bring her back there, but I guess I have to... Thank you.
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Sometimes the only way to deal with something is to look at it. It's the only way to chase the gremlins out of our heard. Just be there with sensitivity when you ask and be sure to give big hugs. if shes ok with that.
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Hi again, well I did an ELISA test (twice) 1st was like 4 weeks after the unprotected penetration we had... It was Negative, the second one was after 6th week and it was negative too. Do I have to be worried still, or it is because my imagination is overreacting. I do not have any symptoms. I just have dry cough, but it is flue season and I am smoking cigarettes... Is 6 weeks enough time to tell if I have HIV, or I have to wait more? I am planing to get tested for 3rd time in the beginning of December (when is going to be 9th or 10th week after the exposure). What can you say? Than you in advance and have a great day.
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