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Gave Handjob - Freaking out like crazy!!
#259710 - 12/31/11 12:49 PM
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I sent this in twice to the Ask the Experts section and have not had a response. I figured this would get a quicker response here.
I have seen this type of question posted here before and I probably should not be worried.
Basically I recently gave a handjob to another guy. Some lube/lotion was used and I did wash my hands a few times during this to get the lotion off my hands. I hand my finger slightly inside his anus for a little. I did not notice any precum during this. I also never exposed my penis. Nothing was done to me or done to me by myself. I was also rubbing his chest and licking one of his nipples during this.
The next day I noticed a very very small nick on my right thumbs knuckle.
I am worried that some seman got into this cut and put me at risk. I am also worried that since I rubbed his chest I may have been at risk when I licked his nipple.
After this was all done I do remember pulling my penis through the fly of my pants and touching it for a bit. This was after I washed my hands at the end but I am worried that since it touched the fly of my pants that I am at risk. He told me that he is totally clean and I am inclined to believe someone when they say that but you can never be certain. He has also never been tested.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am a total nervous wreck!!
Thanks!
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If your really freaking out then go get tested . Chances are greater that your not.
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Thanks for the reply! I just wish I could get tested sooner than 3 months. I am most likely fine but I tend to get really scared about health in general.
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im gonna type this in caps in hopes that it actually sticks with you......
THE ABOVE STATED SCENARIO YOU DESCRIBED IS IN NO WAY AN ACTUAL RISK FOR TRANSMISSION OF HIV...
now, before all you worry wells & drama feeders chime in with internet linkage,etc.... you show me a person who "has been infected in the manner as described above" and i'll show you a liar who's ego has to be so great its needed to hold the door shut on their closest of their own secretive truths! if this was a viable mode of transmission, the human race would have been extinct long before most of those here who are infected, ever got infected.... as repetitive as it is... IF YOUR FEARS ARE HONESTLY THIS GREAT OF GETTING HIV, AFTER ALL THESE OFF THE WALL SCENARIOS.... IT WOULD ALSO BE ..B E F O R E.. ALL THEM ALSO, THUS PREVENTING YOU FROM BEING IN THESE "SITUATIONS"
while HIV testing on a regular basis is a good thing for anyone who is sexually active...so is psychotherapy for those who mentally out of balance on any level....
happy new year 
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Thanks for the reply. I know it is crazy to worry about a situation like that. I just go overboard about health stuff sometimes.
Again, thanks for the reply. I will still get a test in 3 months. I just wish I could go sooner.
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