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worriedguy2012
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Sex with HIV+ man. Worried. Risk?!
      #259378 - 12/07/11 05:56 AM

I am extremely worried about a possible HIV exposure.Thanks in advance for your help!! On Saturday, December 3rd I had "safer" sex with a guy. We went out tonight - Tuesday, December 6 - and he told me that he is HIV+! I am angry that he told me three days AFTER our encounter and moreso because I am way outside the PEP window now. Can you please assess my risk??

WHAT I DID:

- Moderate French kissing for five minutes
- Gave a blowjob for one minute (no precum, no ejaculation)
- Received a blowjob for three minutes (no ejaculation)
- Frottage/mutual masturbation (ejaculation)

MY STATS:

- No previous STDs per August bloodwork. No sexual encounters up until now.

HIS STATS:

- Diagnosed one year ago. Has not started HIV meds. CD4 approximately 500. Assigned to a specialist at a major clinic.

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Re: Sex with HIV+ man. Worried. Risk?! new
      #259385 - 12/07/11 09:10 PM

None of what you described as your encounter is considered a risk for the most part. Some would argue the oral is, but the chances are so slim I wouldn't even bother considering them. The whole oral transmission is under very very very strict conditions and events, that you would actually have to try hard to catch it that way.

As far as the rest, the part where you had sex with a positive person without condoms and now want to panic, remember this fear and terror you are going through and think with the bigger head next time. If you can't handle the consequences afterward then don't do the act in the first place.

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