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Exposed, but dating...
#257493 - 09/14/11 12:36 AM
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So I was exposed Sunday, started post exposure prophylaxis Monday night, I have a long awaited second date with a guy tomorrow... I'm wondering when to bring this up? Kissing is considered a "safer" activity, but I'm wondering when as in which date I bring it up... I had a condom break and a top who lied to me about his status, after a long drawn out day of him threatening suicide and him ending up committed for 72 hours... He told me he was positive for the last 5 years... I don't want to bring up the exposure too soon because that's just too much pressure... But when is the appropriate time? Right before sex, before we kiss the first time...
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So if you check out my post please give me any suggestions that come to mind! Thanks!
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Ask yourself this:
If the person I was dating was in my shoes would I want to know?
Then there is your answer.
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I know that I would tell him, I guess the question I want to know is do I wait till we get to the part where there is actually a risk...
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Well yoou should be practicing safe sex so the risk should be none. I would go with right now rather than later.
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