I urge your kind/prompt reply !!! PLZ Cant handle

Dear adviser,

First of all, I do appreciate your kind check and reply to my below case as soon as you have some time:

I did HIV test for my girlfriend on 27 June 2010 (Rapid and Eliza) both are negative.
she broke up with her ex on April 2010, she declare that she didn't do any relation with anyone from April until June, she is an employee and I know her family members.

From 6 to 13 July she got her period.

I did make love with her without condom on 15 July, after she called me and request me to do make love with her. three days after the exposure I start feel burning after I done from peeing.

One week after exposure I did STD & microbiologi urine & HIV tests:
All STD tests are negative (VDRL - TPHA - Chlamedia (IgG/IgM) - HBsAg - Anti HSV II IgG/IgM)
in my urine result i got "Staphylococcus epidermidis" so the doctor advise me to take antibiotic "Amoxicilin".
I took it for four days and the burning go away.

During those four days (after 11 days on the exposure) i feel my body warm, bit fever with headache, but this feeling was only during day time and at night it disappear until next morning, this last for three days,

Then after that (after 2 weeks from the exposure) Only i got more severe headache with sometimes wamr body ( i always check my body temperature and it was always 37C) and i lost appetite (for four days i lost appetite but i still eat), here i start getting worry about might be infected with HIV.
my severe headache last for two weeks only during day time and at night it disappears, at the end of those two weeks when i go out to toilet one time per day in the morning, my tummy start normal then at then it becomes liquid at the end part of it, only one time per day i go to toilet, this last for one week

So at 03 August ( after around 6 weeks from the first HIV test for her, or after 4 weeks from exposure), I went with my girlfriend and I did test her for HIV Rapid+Eliza+Viral load+Western Blot and all result are negative.

From 11 august to 15 august we travel for holiday my headache start reducing
by the way we agreed to not make love anymore in order to do more tests.

On 21 august i went to a specialist doctor, he has diploma in AIDS and after i told him my above story he confirmed that me and her are negative from HIV for 125% and it is all stress, he ask me to not do anymore tests neither for me or her, and advise me to take pills from "lexapro" one per night for one month, but i didn't take it (i was worry from its side effect). He also subscribe "Flucozole" two pills one per week for me and my girlfriend.

So on 24 August (after around 9 weeks from her first hiv test or after 7 weeks from exposure taking into consideration the week when she was during her period time) she repeat HIV test (rapid+Eliza) and they are negative also.

I got diarrhea on 21-23-24 then i took immodium and it disappear.

My girlfriend was repeating the tests just to make me feel comfortable and she felt offended when i carry her to hospital every time and she was angry to me.

So on 6 September (after 11 weeks on her first test and after 9 weeks from exposure time if we take into consideration her period time) we redid together rapid+eliza test and they are both negative.

Also I did consult again with another two general doctors (my girlfriend visit those two doctors with me) and both said that I should trust her and my girlfriend is not worry at all and she never worry about the hiv tests result while waiting for it, only I am worry because of my body not helping me as described above (headache, burning after finish pee, small fever from time to time, stress day and night, living like i am hiv sick, sometimes i got joint pain..

my girlfriend she said that she wont allow me to repeat the test for her anymore..
she has no symptom and she is enjoying her life..and she sure that she didn't do any relation since last April10 with her ex.

We broke up our relationship because she feel offended that i am testing her may times, and now she is start relationship with another man, planning to hv serious relationship ending with marriage..

Now while writing the email (after 9 weeks from the exposure) i have no symptom at all except feeling down and have no appetite to go out and meet people, i feel lazy.

by the way this is additional info: that i met my girlfriend abroad while i was in business trip working and a small description about my job, i do work hardly, sometimes my day turns night and vice versa..

PLEASE ADVISE ME IF THOSE TESTS DONE FOR HER ARE ENOUGH TO JUDGE THAT SHE IS CLEAN FROM HIV AND THOSE SYMPTOMS I HAVE ARE FROM DIFFERENT REASON (stress, worry,..)?

Please help to answer as soon as you can

Much appreciated
Radical Honesty

Edited by radicalhonesty (09/13/10 01:37 AM)

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