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Onsen3
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Afraid. Are they signs? How risky?
#247088 - 08/17/09 03:08 PM
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I am in a relationship of 3 years right now with a man (a gay relationship) we have been monogamous up until I found out he cheated on me in May. He met up with someone on craigslist and masturbated with him. I got tested and I was negative. Eventually the pain got to me and I made a huge mistake. I went out and posted too however what I did was far riskier. I was involved in kissing, I was fingered, and I received oral and anal sex. The anal sex was protected but the oral was not. Throughout the rest of the month nothing strange occured. Before seeing my boyfriend again I was tested and once again tested negative. After a weekend with him I made another mistake and posted again with the intent to do what he originally did to me. However the man I met up with gave me unprotected oral sex and I allowed it. I also kissed him too. I am worried because recently I have had some strange occurrences with my body all of which occurred a few days after the second meet up.
-Dry mouth
--Lots of burping maybe due to lack of saliva in mouth
-Thinner white coating on tongue (doctor says not thrush)
-What I think are lymph nodes on back of head
-Sores on roof of mouth
-Diarrhea
-Today the back of my mouth looks a bit more veiny (not sure how to explain)
-I felt week for a few days as well
The second guy I had an experience with I took to be tested and he tested negative. I took two tests so far and both were negative however I have to wait for more accurate results. I'm really worried I have HIV and I want to know what the chances are. I did not have unprotected anal sex or offer oral sex only recieved. What are my chances of having it and which of these could be primary HIV infection symptoms? Thank you for your help.
Edited by Onsen3 (08/17/09 04:32 PM)
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The CDC places the risk of receiving a blow job from someone that has HIV at 1 in 20,000, however it's a theorical risk because the CDC also has NO confirm cases of transmission for the last 28 years from getting a blow job.
Nothing you reported in symptoms is specific to HIV at all.
Take a test if you feel you must. Expect that it will be negative and take some time to figure out what you want in from your relationship.
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blueguy
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yeah, you should be fine...you could have gotten herpes from kissing her... but you should have herpes ulcers on your lips already....i doubt you got hiv from this practice...
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