Please help. I'm scared. I have a kissing/oral question

Ok here is my story. 2 and a half years ago I met a girl online and she came and stayed with me for a few days. I did not have sex with her, but I recieved oral a couple of times, and we kissed a whole lot. She told me that my lip was bleeding after we were making out, and I saw a little bit of blood on my lip so I immediately washed it off, and tried to find where it came from and I couldn't, and she couldn't find where it came from on her either. I am a very careful person. I even sanitized my hands after I fingered her. Literally the day she left I came down with Thrush. It hurt really bad. The Doctors drew a blood count and said it was probably because I took antibiotics for so many years due to my acne problems. I took them for like 3 or 4 years straight. Anyways. a Few months later I started having pain under my armpits, started off light, but it got worse over time, then would strangely dissapear. It got so bad this summer that it hurt to lift my arms. Sometimes I even put ice on them. My armpits were very red, itchy, they burned, and very sticky. My dr said it was my deodorant and felt under my arms and said I had no lumps and my lymph nodes were not swollen at all. Since I quit the deodorant, it has improved quite a bit. He said I have contact dermatitis very bad due to my bad allergies. He would be able to feel swollen lymph nodes right?

Even the tags on certain shirts cause my neck to be irritated. Since this happened I have had a total of 3 blood counts, and all have been perfect. The armpit problem is honestly the only problem I've ever had really. I don't recall coming down with a fever or anything. My lymph nodes in my neck seemed a bit sore a couple of months after she left off and on, but it went away and I haven't really had problems since. I really can't feel a lump under my arm, and the dr and nurse both felt and said that my lymph nodes are not swollen. What worries me is the little bit of blood I seen. I do bleed sometimes when I brush, but its never anything serious. Her and I also both had chapped lips. That may have been where part of it came from. It was just a bit of blood and neither one of us could find where it came from. It also makes me worry because I found out later that this girl lied to me about her name, and etc. Like I said, I fingered her, recieved oral, and kissed her, but that is it. Should I go for the test or not? That little bit of blood is the only thing that has me worried. I've never used drugs. Oh, and I haven't had sex. So it's impossible I caught anything from somebody else. I'm tired of everytime I tell myself that I am ok, I get a cloud of doubt telling me that I could have it. On the deodorant problem, it would burn when I would spray it, so to cool it down I would keep spraying it on. I probably sprayed it on 7 or 8 times a day. My arm pits were cooked. My armpits burn and itch, but are better since I discontinued deodorant. I think I even have a scar under both pits. I have had 3 complete blood counts done, and all were perfectly fine. I don't ever recall even having that period where you are supposed to get sick a few weeks after. I rarely ever run fever. I am fixing to get married and start a family. I just want to be happy. I want my life back. Please help.

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