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spearo
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Freaking out: A stripper's nipple and a cracked stingy lip
      #237482 - 03/14/08 04:34 PM

I was out of state and was drinking with a bunch of buddies. Of course we went to a strip club. I decided to get a lapdance - and my mouth came in contact with the stripper's breast a couple of times for a few seconds. Due to the arid region, I had a cracked lip - a stingy break in skin (I saw the bright red in the crack in the skin of my lip).
I did not taste any blood or breast milk. Under normal circumstances I wouldn't think twice about HIV, but the stripper mentioned going to Mexico to receive medical treatment for something and having talked to a doctor that was also a patron. She then asked "Is that ok?" Being drunk I said "sure" - my big mistake. I came to my senses after the dance and washed my mouth out with listerine in the bathroom about 2 minutes after the incident. She did not specify what she had. I couldn't tell because the place was so dark, but if I were exposed to a wound on her breast then am I at risk? Two days later I get an aphtous sore and now 3 weeks later I am freaking out worrying that I am infected. I am on the internet all the time checking information and I am learning more than I've ever wanted to know about this stuff.


I wouldn't have freaked out or even thought about this whole thing if she hadn't mentioned the medical treatment in Mexico. Looking back it sounded like a disclaimer "hey by the way I have something". So you guys know, prior to writing on this forum I called the CDC and explained my story exactly as I have here. The CDC said that they had no information on this type of infection and that I definitely should get tested and not to put other's at risk etc. etc. Do you think I am putting my family/wife/son at risk? Do you think I need to get tested? I have never done anything else like this in my life and I never will again. I know this is guilt affecting my mind, but I can't stop thinking about symptoms and I think I am affecting my self physically. It's been 3 weeks since that night and week 3 has been a really tough one for me. I have a feeling that this is only going to get tougher. I have a dry mouth, I have aches in my glands/lymphs, but no fever as of yet. I wake up once a night freaking out and thirsty but I am not sweaty. Thanks for your help.

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vivo
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Re: Freaking out: A stripper's nipple and a cracke new
      #237484 - 03/14/08 04:47 PM

No risk!

Put your energy in other stuff.



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Jackie__Blue
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Re: Freaking out: A stripper's nipple and a cracke new
      #237488 - 03/14/08 05:34 PM

It's 2008. How is it that in this day and age people still think this type of thing is considered a risk?

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spearo
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Re: Freaking out: A stripper's nipple and a cracke new
      #237584 - 03/17/08 09:41 AM

This fear has taken over my life. I saw a doctor that is a family friend and he said that I have a extremely low risk exposure to HIV and to try not to worry. He said that what I have is guilt and if I feel like it I can get tested in a month to settle my mind. He said I had pharyngitis (sore throat) and that's it. He wouldn't feel my lymph nodes. I do feel my lymph nodes (slight pain) bothering me in my neck, armpit and groin. I don't have a fever or a rash. I wake up suddenly feeling hot every morning at about 6 AM - this is unusual for me because I usually oversleep. I am not hungry and it takes effort for me to eat. Exposure will be 4 weeks this Thursday. I am really freaking out.

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