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Pretty Nervous
      #18460 - 06/16/01 10:31 PM

Hi I am 27 y/o straight female. I got tested yesterday for HIV. I am not into risky sex or drugs but I haven't always been 100% safe. (I have been with 2 different men - one of them has had sex with quite a few women - I doubt he used protection. The other has had 2 one night stands and didn't use anything.) I have had sex without condoms, but no one has cum in me. (Does that make any difference?). The last time I had risky sex was over 2 years ago. Would HIV show up at this point. I am so nervous about this even though I know my chances are low - hopefully - I am just a wreck waiting. How long does the test take to come back? Thanks for reading this...

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      #18465 - 06/17/01 01:22 AM

#1 Yes, you can contract HIV without someone ejaculating in you...pre-seminal fluid can infect, but it's VERY DIFFICULT. Your partner would have to have a high virus load to get infected with his precum. Can it happen?...yes. If you "already" have an STD, like Chlamydia, then the odds are higher because your vaginal area is already compromised. HIV can and does infect through any mucus membrane.

#2 You really don't know, regardless of what your partner says, how many "one night stands" they have had.

#3 The number of people with HIV in the heterosexual community is very very low. There is an increase and larger % of people with HIV in the African American and Hispanic population, but it's still low. The reason for this is the same reason why minorities have always had higher mortality's all about socioeconomics and resources to inform and educate. People who are struggling don't have the same access to healthcare and information as the rest of us.

#4 You are not alone...we ALL have had numerous encounters without's normal to let caution go to the wind when your partner looks hot and healthy and your hormones are racing...the odds are BIG TIME that you will be negative.

#5 Use this as a lesson...don't think you'll never have sex again, because you will...just use protection. And if you get serious with someone and want to stop using condoms, go get tested together and personally read their results. If you get hooked up with a "player" the test might only be as good for as long as it takes them to say, "see you tomorrow" use good judgment and don't always believe the best in guys can be dogs even when we love our girls.

#6 Oral sex CAN transmit HIV, so don't think it's a safe compromise...put a condom on it.

#7 Three months (3) is enough time for your body to produce antibodies to HIV, thus a test at 2 years will give you 100% assurance.

#8 Please be aware that false positives do happen in people, especially women...if you have frequent urinary infections or have had a pregnancy or any autoimmune disorder like Lupus, or if you suffer from Hepatitis, Lyme or Epstein Barr etc. it will frequently yield false positives...I've seen it...had a friend who had a false positive...if that happens they will run a Western Blot to confirm.


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Takes 1 day to 2 weeks new
      #18466 - 06/17/01 01:27 AM

Forgot your other question:

Depending where you got tested, it can take 1 day to 2 weeks. I'm sure they told you when you took the test. The test itself takes an hour or so.

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      #18472 - 06/17/01 05:24 AM

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      #18495 - 06/18/01 01:24 PM

To "Pretty Nervous"

It's entirely up to you, of course, but if I were you, I'd ignore "Health Consultant". He is not replying to you personally. It looks like he has just latched on to the most recent post on the "Am I Infected" board, which just happens to be yours. I would go with what Shane says, and also, well done for doing the right thing and getting tested.

To "Health Consultant"

Is business really so bad that you are reduced to offering to "knock down" the viral loads of people that haven't even got a "viral load"?

If so, I'd find another "naturopathic doctor" with which to become associated.

Best wishes for your wholistic health consultancy.

(Although surely a "wholistic" health consultant would seek to ALLEVIATE stress and anxiety, rather than to blatantly and unnecessarily EXACERBATE them? Call me a sceptic, but I think you're doing more harm than good by posting on sites such as this.

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